So, how you doin’?
Try ‘umbrella’ - you can say it pretty well with the air cut off.
Max - great, the one guy it doesn’t freak out and he lives all the way beyond Thunderdome. See, I’m in the Thunderdome perimeter.
That’s a great suggestion, and I’m glad you added it for the edification of other readers.
Me, I am sadly without a willing partner at the moment (husband’s vanilla is more vanilla than my vanilla) and so my safe words are a thing of memory. For now. 
Not just a porn thing…I enjoy it. I’m not into being tied up, but the feel of skin on skin…there’s nothing like it.
Guys, if you try it…go slow. My ex nearly had a heart attack the first (and only) time I fainted.
So. How you doin? 
Dude… I think women like when you ask them that one at a time.
I have had no steady partner for freaking ever, and that’s what I’m looking for before I pursue some of my tastes again. It’s not really stuff I’d want to do with someone I didn’t know very well.
Ah, but, Projammer, are you strong enough to do the holding down? 
Perhaps he’s just efficient?
Not alone, you’re not.
By the way, and not that it matters, my ring size is 15.
I figured that was less tacky (and more humorous) than asking them back to back.
Besides, it’ll be easier to spin it into a ménage à trois.
Only one way to answer that one darlin.
But if I ain’t, I’ll die happy.
Even if you’re not, finding out is fun.
Uh. Hi.
Uh…
Okay…
Oh, hell! Look, someone grabbed my neck recently in just that manner–not in the asphyxiating way, but in the dominant way, and yes, I liked it. A LOT.
“The only kind of weird sex is not having any”
I’ve seen plenty people on these boards say they enjoy seeing other people enjoy themselves. So even if Throat squeezing isn’t directly enjoyable for the females she might appreciate the fact that her partner enjoys it.
Plus a lot of porn is not made for the benefit of females so should no be taken as representative of average sexual practices.
I just want to say, yes, I’ve experienced it, and found it to be a huge turn-on, but I can’t explain why. I’m pretty submissive in bed naturally, so I guess it plays into that “role” that I enjoy.
I’ve had problems with this. I enjoy the feel of her trachea under my hand. Her last word was green. The next thing I knew, I had a clinically dead woman on my hands. Thank Og I was able to jerry rig an e-stim device to jumpstart her heart. She said the rush was incredible. Still, I made my myself stop for a while.
I wonder now, whether it’s time to resume my erotik experiments. Where can I get another Victorian lab smock?
A safe word is always a good idea when doing potentially dangerous sex acts. My ex and I had a stupid safe word… watermelon.
It leaves you with no doubt, but stop!
She liked the choking thing quite a bit, not everyday but just on occasion when she was feeling kinky. I asked her about it and she said she just liked to be dominated sometimes.
Ironically she was pretty much the Alpha of the house, so I guess gender does not play into it always.
Many, perhaps even most, people who like to be dominated during sex play are the Alphas in daily life, at work or at home. I think we like the opportunity to relax and let someone else do all the tedious thinking and heavy lifting for a while!
well, there goes my good night of sleep.
That actually makes a whole lot of sense.
Whips and chains ?
Been there.
Done that.
Liked it!