[QUOTE=ShelliBean]
Yes. Yes I do. It freaks guys out.
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So, how you doin’?
[QUOTE=zelie zelerton]
You might want to add in a safeword to that. In a lot of scenes part of the fantasy is to be saying ‘No, no, please don’t do that nasty thing that feels so goooooood’ to the other partner. When it comes to a real ‘no’ then things might get a bit confusing. Traffic light systems are easy to remember: Red for stop everything right now, Amber for let’s pause for a minute, Green for do it harder baby!
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Try ‘umbrella’ - you can say it pretty well with the air cut off.
Max - great, the one guy it doesn’t freak out and he lives all the way beyond Thunderdome. See, I’m in the Thunderdome perimeter.
[QUOTE=zelie zelerton]
You might want to add in a safeword to that. In a lot of scenes part of the fantasy is to be saying ‘No, no, please don’t do that nasty thing that feels so goooooood’ to the other partner. When it comes to a real ‘no’ then things might get a bit confusing. Traffic light systems are easy to remember: Red for stop everything right now, Amber for let’s pause for a minute, Green for do it harder baby!
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That’s a great suggestion, and I’m glad you added it for the edification of other readers.
Me, I am sadly without a willing partner at the moment (husband’s vanilla is more vanilla than my vanilla) and so my safe words are a thing of memory. For now. 
Ah yes, it played an interesting role in the movie Rising Sun. (Mmm…Jingo…)
Not just a porn thing…I enjoy it. I’m not into being tied up, but the feel of skin on skin…there’s nothing like it.
Guys, if you try it…go slow. My ex nearly had a heart attack the first (and only) time I fainted.
[QUOTE=Telperien]
If someone feels a need to hold me forcefully during sex, they can pin me by my shoulders or hold down my arms. That’s more than OK.
Phew…::fans self::
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[QUOTE=Kythereia]
I like the idea of being held down by the shoulders and arms and hips, and being tied up / blindfolded.
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So. How you doin? 
[QUOTE=Projammer]
So. How you doin?
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Dude… I think women like when you ask them that one at a time.
[QUOTE=WhyNot]
That’s a great suggestion, and I’m glad you added it for the edification of other readers.
Me, I am sadly without a willing partner at the moment (husband’s vanilla is more vanilla than my vanilla) and so my safe words are a thing of memory. For now.
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I have had no steady partner for freaking ever, and that’s what I’m looking for before I pursue some of my tastes again. It’s not really stuff I’d want to do with someone I didn’t know very well.
Ah, but, Projammer, are you strong enough to do the holding down? 
[QUOTE=Autumn Almanac]
Dude… I think women like when you ask them that one at a time.
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Perhaps he’s just efficient?
[QUOTE=ShelliBean]
Try ‘umbrella’ - you can say it pretty well with the air cut off.
Max - great, the one guy it doesn’t freak out and he lives all the way beyond Thunderdome. See, I’m in the Thunderdome perimeter.
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Not alone, you’re not.
By the way, and not that it matters, my ring size is 15.
[QUOTE=Autumn Almanac]
Dude… I think women like when you ask them that one at a time.
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I figured that was less tacky (and more humorous) than asking them back to back.
Besides, it’ll be easier to spin it into a ménage à trois.
[QUOTE=Telperien]
Ah, but, Projammer, are you strong enough to do the holding down?
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Only one way to answer that one darlin.
But if I ain’t, I’ll die happy.
[QUOTE=Projammer]
Only one way to answer that one darlin.
But if I ain’t, I’ll die happy.
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Even if you’re not, finding out is fun.
Uh. Hi.
Uh…
Okay…
Oh, hell! Look, someone grabbed my neck recently in just that manner–not in the asphyxiating way, but in the dominant way, and yes, I liked it. A LOT.
“The only kind of weird sex is not having any”
I’ve seen plenty people on these boards say they enjoy seeing other people enjoy themselves. So even if Throat squeezing isn’t directly enjoyable for the females she might appreciate the fact that her partner enjoys it.
Plus a lot of porn is not made for the benefit of females so should no be taken as representative of average sexual practices.
I just want to say, yes, I’ve experienced it, and found it to be a huge turn-on, but I can’t explain why. I’m pretty submissive in bed naturally, so I guess it plays into that “role” that I enjoy.
I’ve had problems with this. I enjoy the feel of her trachea under my hand. Her last word was green. The next thing I knew, I had a clinically dead woman on my hands. Thank Og I was able to jerry rig an e-stim device to jumpstart her heart. She said the rush was incredible. Still, I made my myself stop for a while.
I wonder now, whether it’s time to resume my erotik experiments. Where can I get another Victorian lab smock?
[QUOTE=zelie zelerton]
You might want to add in a safeword to that. In a lot of scenes part of the fantasy is to be saying ‘No, no, please don’t do that nasty thing that feels so goooooood’ to the other partner. When it comes to a real ‘no’ then things might get a bit confusing. Traffic light systems are easy to remember: Red for stop everything right now, Amber for let’s pause for a minute, Green for do it harder baby!
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A safe word is always a good idea when doing potentially dangerous sex acts. My ex and I had a stupid safe word… watermelon.
It leaves you with no doubt, but stop!
She liked the choking thing quite a bit, not everyday but just on occasion when she was feeling kinky. I asked her about it and she said she just liked to be dominated sometimes.
Ironically she was pretty much the Alpha of the house, so I guess gender does not play into it always.
[QUOTE=gravitycrash]
Ironically she was pretty much the Alpha of the house, so I guess gender does not play into it always.
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Many, perhaps even most, people who like to be dominated during sex play are the Alphas in daily life, at work or at home. I think we like the opportunity to relax and let someone else do all the tedious thinking and heavy lifting for a while!
[QUOTE=WhyNot]
Many, perhaps even most, people who like to be dominated during sex play are the Alphas in daily life, at work or at home. I think we like the opportunity to relax and let someone else do all the tedious thinking and heavy lifting for a while!
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well, there goes my good night of sleep.
That actually makes a whole lot of sense.
Whips and chains ?
Been there.
Done that.
Liked it!