I’ve noticed as I’ve, slowly and with great reluctance, made the transition from childhood-student-adult that time does indeed go by much faster as you get older. I’m 24 (25 next week. Aghh!) now and have been out of college for ohh about two years now. As a child every day brought something new and different I had a whole big world to learn about so I was aware of every waking minute of every day (more or less.) Once I was old enough to go to school there was still plenty to learn but it was more regimented. Individual days became more and more alike but the pace of elementry school is such that every week was different and new as each day had been before. Also I had things to look forward to, like not being at school and giftmas and such. All that routine and structure made the days seem much shorter than they had been. A year was an impossibly long time to wait.
As I got older and the subjects at school became complex enough to require not just a week but a whole semester to explain time started going by even faster. Now instead of my routine being altered every week my routine was divided by semesters. A year was still a long time but not out of the realm of perception. College was similarly divided. A year was now downgraded to just a couple semesters and a break. Graduation (four years away)was an impossibly far off date.
Since graduating* and (ugh) getting real jobsb time effing flies by so fast I’m getting whiplash. Once you start working every day blends into the next, your routine is always the same it doesn’t change every few months. It’s always the same work, always the same people day in and day out. There are no semester markers to help you keep track of the past year, instead it’s annual performance reviews. That three months off every year - gone. It’s two weeks, if you’re lucky, and you’ll pass on your vacation your first year so you can bank more days off for next year. You now think of your life in terms of years, not days, weeks or semesters but years. You’ll actually find yourself saying things like: “I’ll do this for a * couple years * and see how I like it, then maybe move on.” Retirement (forty-five years) now seems like an impossibly far off goal.
Not having reached retirement yet (still have another 40 years to wait…sigh) I can’t comment on how quickly time goes by then.
One thing that I have noticed is that when I travel and seriously break my routine the days no longer drift by, but are as different full of wonder as they were as a child. When I’m out there on the road, in some strange part of the world I’ve never seen before I’m once again aware of every minute of every day. After a couple months on the road a year once again seems like an impossibly long period of time. You feel as though there’s nothing you can’t do in a year, when you’re on the road.
That leads me to two conclusions about our perception of the passage of time and why it speeds up as we get older. First, once we get older we start working and get locked into our routines. This makes the days and weeks blend together so our memories get muddled. When you don’t have a routine, such as when traveling or when you’re a young child, every day is different from the last, you have clearer markers of the passage of time in your memories as result. Secondly periods of great personal change seem a lot slower and longer than periods stability. Look back at how much you grew and changed each year while you were in highschool or college. Now look back at how much you’ve changed each year since you started working? Big difference huh? Travel also changes people, or at least it does for me. When I travel, the person that comes back is always a little different than the one who left. Ever stop to reflect on past behavior and take a look at who you used to be and been amazed by the difference? Ever hear yourself say “Gawd, I can’t believe that was only a year ago, I’m so different now!” Said that a lot more when you were younger didn’t you? The older you get, the more slowly you change so that’s another set of memory markers getting farther and farther apart.
The second bit, about personal change, I think is related to what ** Tarantula ** said about units of time being a larger percentage of your entire life when you’re younger. After all when you’ve only got five years worth of experience to draw on each day can have a much more prodound effect on you than when you have 20 or 50 years of lifes experiences influencing you. Each can, and does, change you more when you’re younger than when you’re older. So each day is that much more important to you when you’re young (whether or not you realize it at the time,) so you are likely to remember the details, and perceive it as a longer period of time.
- Big mistake btw. If you’re in college now STAY THERE. It sucks out here. Really sucks. Whatever you do don’t graduate, keep switching majors if you have too. Seriously undergrad life is the best.