Pull your pants up and turn your hat straight on your head and LISTEN to me!!
While you are at it get that stupid oversized Bball jersey off and put on something that fits!!
OK now that I have your attention you sorry sack of shit! I have a few things to say to ya!
You are 21 years old… My niece just turned 14 a couple months ago! What the FUCK is wrong with you?? There has GOT to be plenty of LEGAL girls that might date you… Well maybe not If the best you can do is a 14 year old! Did you get all the guys to say OOOOH COOL when you bragged to them about it?? HUH you punkass shitwad! That makes you SOME kind of real man don’t it? If it were left to me you would be so deep in jail that they would have to ship sunlight to your sorry ass!! I don’t understand why my sis didn’t press charges on your perverted ass! I damn sure would have if it were MY daughter!
What if that little girl comes up pregnant HUH… You just ruined her WHOLE LIFE!! Yours too 'cause my sis is dead set against abortion! All for the chance to dip your measly little wick!!
You better hope I never see you around her again or I swear I will personally stretch your scrotum over your face and STAPLE it to the back of your empty ass HEAD!
Sorry folks… Kinda lame I know. But I feel a little better now.
Maybe I should provide some back ground… My sister lives next door and I love my niece as I would my own daughter. Evidently the girl met this stinkwad through some friends.
He had never showed his face before and Sis had no idea that she was talking to him on the phone etc.
Sis found a note that the girl wrote to a friend that detailed everything. When she was confronted she fessed up to sneaking out at night and meeting him in their motor home and begged my sister not to turn him in! Sister then contacted the boys/mans(I use both phrases with disgust) parents and talked her into not pressing charges.
I told her that I wanted the bastard locked up and I got the “she’s my daughter I’ll take care of it!” speach.
I will adhere to her wishes unless I see the prick around here!
Ditto that. I have a daughter who will be that age all too soon. Frankly, I can’t see any parents begging me “please please don’t ruin our son’s life, he’s such a GOOD boy…” and me letting it happen. If he were such a “good boy,” he wouldn’t be sniffing 14yo’s at 21.
IANAL, but from what I understand, once statutory rape is reported, it is out of the parents’ hands, since it’s a felony. Doesn’t matter if your sis wants to press charges or not. That may be why she’s reluctant to report him.
I will agree that it should be reported.
Especially if she comes uppregnant.
wa sshe using birth control?
You’ll also need to get an aids test.
I advise you to show him your post here.
Lame?
Stretching his scrotum over his head and stapling it would be just the thing that would make him think twice.
what does her father think?
When I was 14, I sure would not have been interested in anyone older than 14.
At the very least, make certain your neice gets checked out thoroughly for all STD’s.
I’d report it anyway, the guy committed a felony. You know, and I know that he’s likely done it before with an underage girl, and won’t hesitate to do it again if he gets the chance. (And he MAKES his own chances from the looks of it, sucking up to young girls so he can “pluck” them.) He’s a predator, stop him. :mad:
Weigh the benefits for your niece against the detriments to her before you bring the law into it.
We all know why you want to, (at least), report the guy, but ask yourself,
“How will going to the law help my niece?”
When I was fourteen, I scored with a twenty year old. At the time, I thought that I was quite the stud being able to land someone so much older.
If it was as close to consensual sex as a 14yo can have, I say keep abiding by her mother’s wishes. Despite your feelings, it is actually quite different from an act of violence against you niece.
SimonX I can see your point, but having been the “young girl” with an “older” boyfriend, and looking back on it, I was manipulated, and used. He’s just using the young girls to get his kicks, young girls don’t know much about sex, don’t necessarily know what they want, so he can do as he pleases, and not have to worry about pleasing her. At least, that was my experience.
Also, consider this, it seems from the OP’s tone, that this guy isn’t using condoms, he’s risking pregnancy, and also possibly spreading disease. That, needs to be stopped. Bad enough if a grown woman capable of giving “legal consent” turns up pregnant, or diseased, but an underage girl should be protected. This guy is endangering underage girls, and needs to be stopped.
As a counselor at a treatment program for juvinile sex offenders, I belive you need to report him. He’s a predator pure and simple and that won’t change without treatment of some sort. It may not even change with treatment, but to protect not only your niece but other underage girls from this person.
Think about what’s going to happen to your niece if you bring the law into it.
You can’t just call those guys off. Once the paperwork starts, there’s no calling it back. They become legally obligated to follow certain procedures. Think of public records, media coverage, investigations into the family – it may be hard to consider now, but in some cases perfectly good parents are found negligent…
If there’s a need to call in the legal authorities, ok. But I’d give a lot of latitude to the girl’s parents in making that call. It’s not so cut and dried.
And STD’s, all that, can be dealt with without involving police.
It’s also possible to “make an impression” on the young man without involving the police, but I’m not necessarily advocating that.
There is no such thing as consent when the girl is fourteen. The relationship between a fourteen-year-old and a twentyone-year-old is inherently unequal. If it were a sixteen-year-old boy, I’d say a couple of kids got over excited. But this is manipulation pure and simple. Rape, pure and simple.
What does your brother-in-law say about this, or is he out of the picture? At any rate. I would suggest you show this thread to your sister, not your niece’s “boyfriend.” If she lets the bastard get away with this it is certain he will prey on someone else’s little girl. How is your sis going to feel about that?
