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If that’s actually one of the most common tactics in a real street fight, maybe I’d be a better street fighter than I thought, because that’s about the easiest conceivable attack to defend against. Reach out and grab the top of the guy’s head, push him to one side, and step to the other. He’ll just go right past you. Worst case scenario, you’re back to square one, or much more likely, he’s off-balance for a moment.
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You seem to be envisioning an attacker standing 8 feet away, bending at the waist, and then running in a straight line at the defender with his head down. Ever seen a guy charge the mound? When he arrives, he slows down and still tries to hit the pitcher with some momentum even though the pitcher is waiting for him. The only time I saw a guy actually control a head and move the opponent to the ground was when Don Zimmer charged Pedro Martinez.
I’ve seen bull-rushes in fights, but they almost always start from in-close, with a chest-shirt grab (or a bear hug), and driving the guy backward. The backwards guy loses balance, and they both go down, and then it’s on.
I’m thinking back to the fights of seen in my life.
Some real examples:
One fight I’ve seen that didn’t go to the ground: Two guys face to face, giving each other shit. One of them – very quickly – punched the other in the mouth. They were both kind of shocked. The puncher stood there ready for more, while the other guy inspected the blood, said some shit like, “you’re not worth it”, and walked away. The punchee was my best friend in high school. The other guy wasn’t worth it, but he still would have kicked my friend’s ass.
Another fight I’ve seen that didn’t go to the ground: Two guys face to face. Some punches, some grappling, one guy got into a classic headlock and started getting punched in the face until onlookers broke it up. This is the same thing that happened when Robin Ventura charged Nolan Ryan. This was in the high school hallway.
Generally every other fight I’ve seen: Two guys chest to chest acting tough. One guy shoves the other in the chest, and then is on top of him as they both crash to the ground. Usually some rending of shirts, some wrestling, and the fight is over when the spectators decide the loser has had enough. From down positions, I’ve seen the guy on bottom rain blows on the top’s face, and I’ve seen the top rain blows on the bottom’s face.
I’ve also seen a guy throw something (a soda in a paper cup) at a guy’s face, and then tackle him when he raised his hands to defend himself.
I saw two guys in a bar once that were face to face in a narrow hallway. That fight went to the ground immediately and was broken up quickly.
Anyway, I’d be interested in hearing more real world fight stories. Anything I’ve seen that goes on for any period of time goes to the ground, and everything goes on for a period of time unless people stop it. That is, I’ve never seen a person just incapacitated by getting punched or kicked.
I’m sure you could find some real fights at youtube if you tried. Fights aren’t neat. The participants are off balance. There’s a lot of clothes-grabbing. I’ve seen a couple fights where one guy just doesn’t fight back. He sorts of “reasons” (as in “what the fuck man? I ain’t gonna fight you”) even as he gets punched, until the other guy doesn’t see the sport in it.
And I’ve never seen a fight that goes down get back up.