I work at a catering hall. Mostly it’s weddings, and I see about 3-4 rugs a month.
I attribute the ability to see when a man is wearing a toupee to the same reason that men who grow their hair long often looks ratty. They are not used to the care it would take to make it look healthy/natural.
I had a boss 20 years ago who wore a rug forever. Because it never occured to me that anyone would do such a thing I was surprised when someone made a joke about it. It wasn’t that bad, his hair just had a kind of rigid look to it, like it never moved.
Much worse was a few implants I’ve seen over the years - so obvious and I can’t help thinking about having holes punched in my head.
I always thought the bad rug thing was just a cliche, or something that had died out. Then I had someone come into the office recently in a really obvious hairpiece. Dead squirrel on head toupee. Super nice man in sales… but the hair was weird.
I know a lot of the African American women where I used to work would wear wigs. Some good and some awful. They didn’t seem to care either way what it looked like. They were happy with it.
A friend and neighbor of many years went waterskiiing with me. After arriving at the lake he told me he wore a hairpiece (in case a bad fall knocked it off). Neither I nor Mizpullin knew this, despite spending a lot of time with him at his house and in his pool.
The hairpiece was amazingly natural, and was somehow attached with snaps that apparently, were embedded in his skull. :eek: He told me later he actually had several identical ones that he rotated through some cleaning process and that he had to shave his head periodically when he changed pieces.
Trust me, nothing gets by Mizpullin; If she didn’t notice, then it was one helluva good rug.