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Now, is a gay voice a choice or a genetic condition? You can’t have it both ways.
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The stereotypical gay voice is that of the effeminate or “sissy boy” male. Not coincidentally probably it is also the natural speaking voice of the tweeter who became so upset (hear him beginning around 2:51).
The reason it’s identified so strongly with gay men even though not all gay men are effeminate is that the guys to whom it’s their natural voice were usually the ones who could not hide their orientation convincingly even if they wanted to. In past generations and even to a large degree this one those who could/can hide their orientation often do/did. It’s very true that many gays are irritated by this accent, which I find no less/possibly more irritating than the number of straights who mock this manner of speech; for one thing it shows that they have no knowledge of gay history and how effeminate men, even drag queens, were invariably on the front lines of the gay rights movement. (That’s not saying they were there alone, but they were always there.)
I’m a not particularly effeminate gay guy but would still consider myself completely obvious to anybody who knows what to look for and I’m pretty much open even, but you’d be amazed how many people who’ve known me for years on a first name basis (though obviously not as intimate friends) never pick up on my being gay and are surprised when they learn it. However, an effeminate man who is married and has 7 kids will always automatically be assumed to be gay, and in school their lives are sheer hell. Other gay kids often pick on them as part of a mask to their own sexual identity. There’s no way it’s a choice: nobody would go through what they go through with other kids, often with their dads and moms, 24/7/365, if they could “choose” not to. * That’s not to say they can’t butch it up a little- every gay guy I know including myself has his “butch voice” that they use when expedient- but the “butch voice” is no more natural than speaking in a pirate voice all day- just not something you want to do. Plus, think of Kurt from GLEE if you’re familiar with him: if he perfectly aped Clint Eastwood for a minute or two of dialogue, is he going to fool anyone?
Speaking patterns are still a VERY sensitive subject among minorities. Many white southerners can do near pitch-perfect if somewhat exaggerated imitations of the Black English Vernacular-Southern accent, but if they do it in public it will often MAJORLY piss off blacks who overhear it regardless of whether they themselves speak like that. Most black people can do pitch perfect if somewhat exaggerated imitations of “proper” country-club Thurston Howell III white accents (I think it was Dave Chappelle who called it “Job Interview Speak”)- it pisses off white people who overhear it regardless of whether or not they speak like that.
An interesting example: Some of the same people who thought Shirley Q. Liquor was absolutely hysterical when she was a radio character became furious when they learned it was the persona of Chuck Knipp, a white gay he-Texan. When he began doing personal appearances in black face and drag it was of course even more controversial, though he still has black fans (Rupaul and Whoopi Goldberg among them) in addition to many outspoken critics both white and black.
I think that a large part of this is of course the fact Tracy Morgan is straight and his personal views really aren’t well known, and on such a sensitive subject that does make all the difference. Bill Cosby has trashed the way some young black men speak and that raised a loud chorus of approval from some blacks and disapproval from others; if a white comedian criticized the speech patterns of young blacks and said he’d kill his kid for speaking like a whigger, you can imagine the outcry.
In any case, I think what irks me most about Morgan is his immediate apology which seems as genuine as a $20 Rolex. Celebrities making dumbass inflammatory comments and then rushing to say “I didn’t realize those comments were dumbass and inflammatory” has gotten old and I think I’d have more respect for a “yeah I said it, fuck yourself” response. (Doesn’t mean I’d like the person, but I’d have a tad more respect for their backbone.)
*The fact that Anderson Cooper has been doing a series of reports on “Sissy Boy” therapy all week also may have helped create the storm situations for Morgan to get the national disapproving spotlight for a routine he’s probably done many times before. This has been prominently featured on Facebook and Huffington Post and other sites and had many gays really pissed off over the response to sissies (which ironically most would apply to George Rekers’ own voice and mannerisms). Not saying for certain this is a reason this blew up so, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it were.