I’ve developed a habit of looking at the alarm clock if I’m not asleep in 15-20 minutes.
I also look at the alarm clock until it hits 10:30, when I try to go to sleep.
Could this be why I have trouble sleeping?
Also, I tried turning around my clock, but I still keep looking at it.
I used to look at my cable box clock until it said 10:30, but a few weeks ago, I replaced it with a TiVo. Since then, I’ve had more trouble sleeping. Think they’re connected?
IMO, yes. I used to stress out if I wasn’t asleep by a certain time as I was sure that meant I would have a shit day tomorrow.
I was finally able to convince myself: “It doesn’t matter if I actually fall asleep. as long as I keep my eyes closed and stay relaxed, my day tomorrow will be fine.” It took a while, but once I was able to convince myself of that, I was able to sleep just fine.
It sounds like yes, they are connected. Your evening routine has changed, and you are taking a while to adjust to it.
Can you place a clock in the same place the cable box was, so your routine is more similar?
I found for myself that I do better if I hide the clock and don’t even look at it. It became more of a distraction and was keeping me awake (still not asleep? oh no!). You could experiment with turning the clock around and not being able to see it. Perhaps that would work instead.
I said 10 because that gives you thirty minutes to go to sleep. Pick a time to go to bed every night. Once in bed, forget about looking at that clock. You’ve already proven doing so doesn’t help. More of the same won’t help either.
I have anxiety issues as well. I find, that when my mind is racing, having a tv on in the background helps drowned out my inner thoughts. Which allows me to fall asleep faster.
I’m the opposite. I don’t mind looking at the clock. To me, it’s reassuring to see what time it is and know that, “Oh, good, I don’t have to get up for another X hours.”
I do have to take a sleep aid at night, though, but sometimes, depending on what I’m going to do the next day, it can take longer for me to fall asleep. I have found that I can go to bed early and unlike childhood, it’s not a punishment!!
I already take meds in the morning. I’ve been taking sertraline and risperidone for about 10 years now. I heard the insomnia side effects are supposed to go away after the first few weeks.
I also take a sleep formula pill that contains melatonin, which I have taken on and off since 2007. I’m worried that my body has stopped naturally producing melatonin. What do I do?
Also, I used to go to bed at 11:00 until a couple of years ago, when I had trouble sleeping for an entire summer. Since then, I’ve been going to bed at 10:30.
You must have a therapist since you’re on ADHD meds. I think you should talk to them about this. I wonder if you might need your meds adjusted or if you’re developing an issue surrounding the time. I may be full of crap, but there might be more here. I hope you get things sorted out.
Per other discussions on this board recently (:)), liquid melatonin is much more efficient than pills, which often may not contain what they claim. Talk to your doctor about it, but you can buy it in most drug stores.