I grew up in a household with two nurses, my mother and sister, and being the inquisitive little monkey that I am, I spent many a day reading their textbooks as they went through nursing school and developed a lasting interest in medical science in the process. Over the past decade I’ve worked in various capacities for a prominent medical facility here in Minnesota that rhymes with “K.O. Cynic.” Somehow I’ve developed a condition which forces me into spasms of hypochondria whenever I experience a symptom beyond the usual cold/flu signs, and I tend to automatically assume the worst. In the following case, however, I thought I had just cause to assume the worst…
I’ve always had a high tolerance for alcohol. Matching me drink for drink is likely to get most people to pass out long before I’ve started to approach slurred speech and falling down modes. I’m a big guy, and part Irish, so maybe that’s part of it, but in any case I shouldn’t be able to down that much alcohol without some severe side effects, as I had a RNY gastric bypass surgery years ago. So each drink ought to affect me MORE than it would affect someone with normal plumbing. How much drinking are we talking about here? Well, I would generally keep either 3.0 ltr bottles or 5 ltr boxes of wine in the fridge at all times, and typically I could get a box of wine on Saturday and need a new one on Monday…but that’s not all. The wine at home was for drinking when it was too early to go out and drink - or too late. So I’d go out and order a bottle of wine, then maybe a second bottle, or maybe some double shots of tequila or schnapps, THEN I’d go to the bar that the restaurant workers go to after work, and maybe get another bottle of wine or shots, then finally at 2 in the morning I’d go home and pour myself a couple of glasses of wine as I watched TV, going to bed around 5 or 6 in the morning. And this was pretty much every day. (This wasn’t always the typical scenario; I used to just drink 6 or 8 beers and maybe a couple glasses of wine. You know, light drinking.)
Over the past few months I’ve gradually gotten more and more fatigued and withdrawn, preferring to stay in bed and sleep most of the day away, then go out at night and drink until 2 a.m., then come home and drink some more to fall asleep. I’d sometimes go days without eating; I either forgot or just couldn’t be bothered. Of course I was letting responsibilities slip; I even messed up a great chance I had for what would have been an ideal job for me. I’d wake up in the mid-morning (I couldn’t sleep longer than a few hours at a time) and dry heave for a few minutes, try to wash the bitter taste from my mouth, and fret over the dark orange urine I passed or the bloody stools that had become a regular sight for me. My hands would shake uncontrollably as I tried to work the TV remote or perform some precision movement like putting in my contact lenses. And I was periodically experiencing painful cramps in my legs, crippling pain that would leave me sore and hobbling for days afterward. My skin was bruising easily and my wounds were slow to heal. The swelling I had in my legs for years had gotten worse and I wore compression stockings constantly. I felt a dull ache in my side and back, a sure sign of liver distress. And finally a week ago today my hands and feet all cramped up in excruciating pain as I was attempting to get some drawings done while I was out at my favorite watering hole. It took hours for me to get my hands and feet to relax long enough for me to get home.
When I got home and researched the symptoms, one thing stood out to me; chronic kidney disease. I could swear I had every single one of the symptoms, and all of the web sites agreed that if you had some of the more severe symptoms, you were either experiencing kidney failure or you were on the brink of it. At that point, the only options left are dialysis and transplant, and mortality rates are high.
I shat myself, in the figurative sense, and immediately stopped drinking. I had contemplated stopping before but was afraid of serious withdrawal symptoms so I kept putting it off, but now I quit cold turkey, and honestly I felt no additional side effects or withdrawal symptoms. I had excessive thirst and dry mouth prior to quitting, so I don’t count those, though I maybe have had a few moments of disreality.
I started cleaning my apartment, getting rid of leftover wine bottles and boxes, trying to pretty much get my affairs in order before getting an appointment with my doctor, anticipating that members of my family would be coming up to see me once they found out I was dying from renal failure. I kept researching dialysis machines and transplant procedures, then I finally called to get an appointment to see my doctor on Wednesday of last week.
The doc was out so I got to see her nurse practitioner (NP) and I told her I came to see her because I thought I had the symptoms of end-stage kidney disease. I described my symptoms and my drinking habits and she ordered a battery of blood tests for Friday; she told me that she thought most if not all of the symptoms could indicate diabetes, not kidney disease…and I began to think, yeah, that makes sense because I do have those symptoms but I don’t have the flank pain characteristic of kidney disease.
Now, prior to meeting with the NP, I had gone to my friends and pretty much told them I thought I was going into renal failure. I was in shock and thought pretty much that death was close, possibly only a matter of days or even hours if I was truly in renal failure. After meeting with the NP, I began to think that I was in fact diabetic, so I began researching THAT. I was carefully avoiding certain foods and wondering if I should be doing something with my diet to avoid aggravating the disease. And I went around the next day telling people that I may in fact be diabetic instead of in renal failure after all, and that I thought that was a relief in comparison.
On Thursday night, I was sitting at my favorite restaurant/bar, drinking water and looking up more symptoms when I started getting severe abdominal cramps, and I looked that up and noticed alcoholic ketoacidosis, which is typically brought on by consecutive days of excessive drinking with little or no food. The web sites said it was a life-threatening condition and you should go to the ER NOW NOW NOW DAMMIT! So of COURSE I decided I had THAT, and went to the ER. I told them what I thought I had, and they took some blood and ordered a CT scan of my abdomen. (note that I had just eaten a couple hours before) They suspected pancreatitis but the blood work and CT scan showed nothing wrong, so they prescribed some Prilosec for me and sent me home.
I was already fasting for the blood work to be done Friday morning, so I drank some water and went to bed. I slept in two or three hour spurts and went in early for my blood to be drawn. Later in the day the NP called me and told me that my numbers were worse than they were in the ER, and we would talk on Monday, but first I was going to start on high-potency Potassium and Calcium supplements because I was very low on those. I was still having some pain in the liver area despite not drinking alcohol at all, so I began to think it was liver failure!
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