Mr. Ipsum and I decided in November that we wanted to have a new house built, as we could afford it, and wanted something larger and newer. Our builder provided a deal where they would pay our old house’s mortgage for 5 months after the new house’s closing date if we hadn’t sold. We figured that would give us plenty of time, as we were planning to not actually have them start the house until January, to aim for a closing date of late April.
The house hasn’t sold yet and Mr. Ipsum is panicking, and now it’s starting to rub off on me. At first, we were both confident that the house would sell, as we put it on the market in November, and have until September until we’d have to start paying the mortgage again.
Our house is in a very desirable location, and is in good shape considering it is 62 years old. But there are 2 problems - it is small and doesn’t have a basement.
When he bought the house in 2004, we were dating but not yet married or living together, but I came with him to look at the houses. This was the one we both liked the best, as we liked the “look” of it, and it was in better condition than the other houses we looked at. Neither of us grew up in houses with basements, so it wasn’t even something we considered. During the past 7 years, we have made significant improvements that we were assuming would increase the value, most importantly a new roof, chimney, and ceiling in the living room.
Now I’m wondering if we made a terrible mistake in choosing this house. The first few people who looked at our house in November had made comments along the lines of “too small and too expensive.” I kept pestering Mr. Ipsum to lower the price, as I think he was asking too much. He said he was doing this because he knew people would just make lowball offers anyway. But he did lower the price eventually.
We didn’t have much action in December/January, which is understandable due to the weather and the holidays. The people who have looked at it lately haven’t commented negatively on the price, but they have all said that it was either too small or the lack of basement was a dealbreaker. We have had 2 open houses where a lot of people came through, but no offers. At the last open house, we did get some interest - a woman who came by herself, who was looking for a house for her father. She actually came back later with her father to show it to him. But we didn’t get an offer from them.
We are going to lower the price further next week. Our realtor thinks that this next reduction will make a big difference, as it puts us in the next lowest price bracket (as in, it puts us within the next 10,000 lower bracket, if that makes sense). This is actually the price he recommended we go with back in November. So I’m hoping that he knows what he’s talking about and that this is actually an appropriate price for a home without a basement.
Are we totally screwed? I looked up the listings for other houses in our area. Every damn house, except one, that’s for sale in our town has a basement. Since they are so common in this area, I think we are going to be stuck with it forever.
We are actually investigating what the consequences would be if we back out of buying the new house. Mr. Ipsum thinks we will just lose the deposit and the homebuilder will just put it on the market and sell it to someone else. I don’t think it will be that easy, somehow.
All this stress is negatively affecting my life. I can’t sleep, can’t concentrate on work, am crying all the time.
Any advice? Is there anything we can do to make the house more desirable, short of taking a loss on the sale? Is there anyone out there who doesn’t care about having a basement in their house? We were hoping that maybe an older, retired person might like our house if they specifically want something small and don’t want to go up and down stairs. But so far, this person hasn’t materialized.