Mercy, wind! I’m speechless.
Don’t read the following if you are disturbed by unpleasant stories.
I had the police scanner on one day and heard of a problem at a local swimming pool where a group of blind people were having an outing. One man had gone berserk, attacking people and tearing his ears off. As I listened I learned a brief medical history. He was blind and had lost his hearing at an early age.
So here was a fortyish man who lived in silence in the dark. Suddenly he had been introduced into an unfamiliar situation.
The staff had descibed his behavior as “acting out” which would, from a behavioral point of view, be the language one would use. But all I could think of was how this man was locked away what may seem to him like an eternity and wondering how humane it may be to drag him about as though he were enjoying himself.
Argh! Surely there must be solutions to providing profoundly incapacitated folks with quality of life (at great monetary expense.) There was, of course, the case of Helen Keller.
But I have seen people so badly damaged by mood-altering chemical use that there are times when I’ve thought taking them out behind the barn and putting them out of their misery may be a more humane response.
Euthanasia, that dangerous concept. I think the way most people with a terminal illness die in this country is atrocious. My frail, eighty-seven year-old mom died in hospice and I’m fairly certain that you could call her death a case of euthanasia, pain control being increased until death resulted.
It seemed like a much more gentle death than what the medical people recommended which was surgery followed by chemo and radiation. And certainly a bed-ridden existence until a slowly inevitable death.
My father was obligated to starve himself to death in the hospital because he would have been conscious and on life support for the rest of a life he didn’t want. It was a point where I began to understand the old couples who chose the shotgun method. We treat dogs better in this culture.
Why do we insist on “the right of all people” to have fulfilling lives when it’s so obvious that some never will?
I suppose because it seems like a nice idea.