I am thinking of going on vacation.
tell me what you would prefer:
a)plan everything and tell Husband the week before to pack his bags. Everything would be a surprise! I would get vacation time off for him and everything. He would have no idea other than to “pack warm” or what have you.
b) tell him ahead of time and let him help with the planning.
I know it’s hard to say what someone else would like so pretend its your SO doing this for you.
give me the pros and cons, o esteemed dopers.