I have a mini-sampling here. At my job there are approximately 15 workers. Four identify themselves as vegetarian (one doesn’t like eggs, but eats them if she can’t taste them, the others have no problem with lactose products), one is vegan (and all that implies - nothing related to animal products, such as gelatin, dairy, honey, whey, meat, etc), and one is almost vegetarian (meaning that he eats meat occasionally, so doens’t identify himself as such). We often have birthday parties (cake or pie), and unfortunately, this usually means that the vegan is left out, but she doesn’t complain, just gets something of her own to eat.
We just had her birthday party and they got some vegan cookies for her. There’s never a problem there - she realizes that a lot of the time when we have desserts they aren’t going to be edible for her (and yes, I know it’s possible to get some vegan ones, but frankly, the ones I’ve had haven’t been that good and besides that, it’s up to the birthday girl/boy to pick their dessert, and we get a discount at the store next door, which doesn’t really do vegan stuff, so don’t go off on me about that).
I think that in a sense, some people are being too hard on the OP. Yes, it was idiotic to think that a vegetarian meal should be made vegan (a lot of vegetarians needs that protein from the eggs, or like mayo on their sandwiches), and to go off on the people at the deli (in the thread, not in person) because it should be vegan. But honestly, it seems it was the co-worker’s fault. The co-worker was told several times that prisoner didn’t eat eggs, yet failed to specify, and thus the food was inedible.
Just because prisoner is complaining here about it doesn’t mean that he is a militant vegan/vegetarian. None of us have any idea what he’s like in person and how he acts. The Pit is for fuming and flaming, and that’s what he’s doing. His arguments aren’t the most coherent, but still, I think a lot of people are assuming that simply because he’s complaining, that must mean he’s an ass in real life.
And to continue with the tofu hijack - I don’t usually press my tofu. I buy the extra firm, cut it in cubes, throw it in the stir fry and it browns a bit. It can be a little slimy, but I hate the tofu they usually have in chinese restaurants, where it’s all fried and caky. Btw, I’ve found it’s really good if cooked with balsamic vinegar, or sherry, or red wine, or soy sauce.