[Pet Psychology Theory]
Think of life in the following terms: There is only one thing in the world that you can control, which is yourself. And even that’s not 100%.
Now, to the healthy person, they don’t think in terms like that. Your average person thinks that they can control their life and that pretty much everyone they know acts and will react like themselves. Control of their own lives just isn’t something that worries them. Someone who has issues, though, does think in terms like that.
What lets a normal person become a normal person is their upbringing. They aren’t worried about the world being out to get them because they had two invincible pillars there to protect them, and show them that they can grow up to be equally invincible. They have story books that similarly show how man can conquer the fears of the world. And they have friends who, even though they are part of the rest of the world, they’re not scary and even helpful.
The more of those things that are lacking, the greater the odds that the person will become fearful of the world.
And most specifically, if the person has a chemistry problem like depression, or if one of the invincible pillars chooses to abuse their absolute power over the child, then the odds go up even higher.
Now, I say odds because how a person will react to the scarinesses of life depends some amount on genetics and secondary influences. For instance, there was a pretty recent GD thread about how kids with a higher IQ are less susceptible to post traumatic stress syndrome.
How this all turns out though is pretty random. Again, this will largely depend on genetics and secondary influences. Some people will become serial rapists, others become pedophiles, yet other commit suicide, and some like our Virginian friend will go out in a blaze. But at heart it all boils down to the same thing, which is that the person is afraid of the world, and the “solution” that they have found to take that control back is something that will be harmful to others.
[/PPT]