Thanks all! To those who’re wondering, no, no St. Joseph statue. We just looked at what we thought we could reasonably expect for the place and then added $15,000 to our asking price. The buyers came in and offered us $15,000 under our asking price. They think they got a steal, and we got exactly what we were hoping for (which is still a hell of a lot more than what we paid for it two years ago)…win-win!
As for where we’re going, it’ll be somewhere in southern Ocean County. We’re looking to get a place near my wife’s sister – she had a baby last year, but hates the day care situation there. The plan is for my wife to be able to stay home with The Littlest Briston, plus watch our nephew during the day (and perhaps an Even Littler Briston down the road?). Now we just have to find a new home!
The “why” is a little trickier. Basically, it comes down to this – we love our home, and wish we could take it with us. But the neighborhood sucks. In November of '06 I started this thread about a guy getting shot right behind my house. Since then, there’ve also been two drive-by shootings within a block of our home. Sorry, three shootings in 16 months is two over my limit (I figure one can be a fluke and can happen anywhere).
It’s a terrible shame – so much of our neighborhood is absolutely beautiful, but if you look close, the grime really shows. You’ll notice the drug deals going down in the corner grocery; you’ll hear drunken screaming matches turning into fistfights in the middle of the street…all kinds of crap like that. I hate that it’s a select few driving us away, but I refuse to bring my daughter up in an environment like this. Our next home won’t be anywhere near the size of this one, but I’ll go back to having loud noises making me think “car backfiring” rather than “gunshot”.
From the “How To Piss Off Your Neighbors” File: The house across the street from us has been on the market for several months now. Yesterday evening I was outside, and the owner came and pointed out how it’s a shame that we put up For Sale signs on our place, since having two homes across from each other on the market hurts both their chances. I told him not to worry, that the signs would be coming down shortly.
“Oh, changed your mind so soon?”, he asked. The look on his face when I told him that no, we sold it already, was fricking priceless.