Words fail me. You’re in my thoughts and prayers Lurkmeister.
I’m so sorry to hear of what you are both going through. I’ve followed your saga with a special interest since I cared for my Mom through ALS/Lou Gherigs’ Disease. Now I find myself in a similar position with my Dad having multiple medical issues and in a similar position as your wife and my heart goes out to you. It is beyond difficult to lose a piece of someone you love every day. I pray for strength and peace for you both.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Oh LurkMeister. 
LurkMeister, you and Mrs. LurkMeister are both in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find the peace and strength you need.
Your wife is so lucky to have you. I won’t have a spouse, but I hope whoever my “healthcare proxy” is will be as terrific as you.
How sad. You’re a very good husband. Hang tough, my friend.
LurkMeister, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May peace be with you.
LurkMeister, your strength and courage are overwhelming. May you find peace and comfort as does your wife. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Words fail me. You and your loved ones are in my warmest thoughts during this horribly difficult and painful time.
I only have a remote idea of how difficult this is for you, having been part of the decision making process to withhold a feeding tube from my dying mother about a year ago. These tough decisions are rooted in love.
Be at peace.
I’m going on some assumptions here, but I hope these help:
Deliver your servant _______, O Sovereign Lord Christ, from all evil, and set her free from every bond; that she may rest with all your saints in the eternal habitations; where with the Father and the Holy Spirit you live and reign, One God, forever and ever. Amen
O God, the life of those who live, the light of the faithful, the strength of those who labor, and the repose of the dead: We thank you for the blessings of the day that is past, and humbly ask your protection through the coming night. Bring us in safety to the morning hours; through him who died and rose again for us, Your Son our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen
O Merciful Father, who has taught us in your holy Word that you do not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men: Look with pity upon the sorrows of your servant for whom our prayers are offered. Remember him, O Lord, in mercy, nourish his soul with patience, comfort him with a sense of your goodness, lift up your countenance upon him, and give him peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen
-The Book of Common Prayer, ECUSA.
Vlad/Drac
I am so very sorry. You and yours are in my thoughts.
LurkMeister, peace be with you and your wife.
I’m very sorry to hear about this. From reading your other threads it sound like you’ve been very devoted to your wife through a very difficult ordeal. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Well, I’ve nothing to say that hasn’t already been said, and certainly nothing to say that can make your pain and difficulties any more bearable ; but I do want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
From another anonymous person who knows you only through your “online ramblings”, you have my deepest condolences Lurk. Having watched my grandmother and a dear friend go through the shutdown process just last year I have an inkling of how this must be affecting you. The wait is the worst part; when it’s over you’ll grieve but also feel some relief as her suffering is over.
Stay strong my friend. There’s lots of support out there for you. Plenty right here on this board.
I’m so sorry, LurkMeister. Your wife was extremely lucky to have such a caring husband. Best wishes to you.
Best wishes to you and your wife during this time… may the waiting go smoothly on both of you.
I wish I knew what to say, LurkMeister. I’m so sorry.