Good call - don’t give her the name of the company or the phone number. Give her a fake company name if you have to. If she needs to reach you she can always leave a message. And in the infinitismally small chance that she should have an actual emergency and not be able to reach you, oh well, she earned that. She can call 911.
I’m so glad I started reading this thread late. This way I don’t have to wait for the best part.
Not being a mental health professional I don’t know if narcicism would be part of your mom’s diagnosis, but I have a manipulating “If you loved me you wouldn’t…or would…[some thing that benefits her and hurts me]” mom. Years ago a therapist recommended a book to me called Trapped in the Mirror
While I understand the advice to cut her out of your life, I can’t imagine ever being able to do that. The book helped me feel less like I was responsible for her hurt feelings and machinations.
I think the advice about choosing when to take her calls is doable.
Enjoy your new job and the easing of financial tensions.
Best wished to you on both the personal and professional fronts.
Excellent! Well done!!! I’m very happy for you. I know we rarely agree on these boards but I admire the way you have, and are, handling things. Keep it up and you’ll do great. I’m elated for you.
(Plus, if this new job keeps you busy enough maybe you won’t be able to post as much nonsense here. ;))
Congratulations!!!
I was really hoping as I read down this thread that there would be good news towards the end. Congrats on the job!