What are the limits of alternative lifestyle acceptance when kids are involved?

I was reading this thread which references a man and wife with an nomadic, hippy / deadheadesque type wandering, nomadic lifestyle aboard their “Bicyclebus” who (for whatever reason it’s not elaborated) had their kid(s) taken away. (Site has a super low bandwidth allowance so it might be off line).

Who decides what is appropriate and inappropriate re a kid being taken away? What are the limits of a parent’s ability to an alternative lifestyle?

If I take my kids to family nudist camps, and practice some sort of earth goddess worship can either of these things be used against me procedurally in removing my custody? Would you even be allowed to raise kids in an RV? Who controls how I school my kids if I home school them? How powerful are state Child Protective Services organizations? To what extent do they have to justify their decisions?

Whatever you do, just don’t become a Subgenius.

These things are going to be regulated at the state and enforced at the county (probably) level. So the mileage will vary so widely that I don’t think you’ll get a clear answer to this.

There have been threads specifically on the variety of levels of oversight for homeschooling, which vary greatly by state, that would allow you to get answers to that part of your question.

Since regulations differ by state, I can’t answer the question completely. But in the states I’m familiar with around here, child welfare (by whatever name) can’t take children away without a court order unless there’s immediate danger to the child’s life or health. Even in that case, a hearing must be provided within 48-72 hours.

The general procedure for a non-emergency case goes something like this:

The case is reported to the child welfare people.

They screen the report. If it seems valid, they interview the parents (and sometimes the child.)

If the evidence warrants, a follow-up meeting is scheduled. This meeting will outline a corrective program, instruct the parents on what assistance is available, etc.

After a period of time (30-60) days, the case is re-evaluated. If the family is making substantial process, the child stays in the parents’ custody and there’s additional follow-up.

If substantial progress is not being made, the parents may be asked to voluntarily put the child in the care of a close friend or relative.

If that isn’t possible, they may be asked to voluntarily put the child into foster care.

If the parents don’t agree, then a hearing may be scheduled in front of a judge for a court order.

Even if the judge orders the child removed at that point, it’s only for a temporary period. The parents will have multiple opportunities to show they’ve gotten their act together.

I don’t know what the laws were 25 years ago. But reading through the other thread and the original site, it looks like the authorities were dealing with an emotionally troubled mother, a father who was insisting everything was fine, and an unwillingness/inability to come in for monthly meetings and an attitude that they were self-righteous bureaucrats.

Honestly, they traveled the country in a big bus and then insisted they’d have to hitchhike into town for monthly follow-up? The account seems a little self-serving to me.

I’m a non-custodial parent, who had to sue for visitation rights. At the time I was living in a Pagan/Nudist household. The caseworker who evaluated my living situation before approving visitation made us all promise we’d keep our clothes on when LittleLizard was visiting. I could tell he had his doubts about us, but not enough to keep him from approving my parental rights.