What are things that are generally considered "unsexy" that you find sexy?

I stand by my murrr.

What’s a murrr? Maybe I’m just dense, but I don’t know what you mean when you use that word.

Expression of ambivalence?? :confused: Maybe? That’s all I’ve got.

Hhehe, sorry! Mrrrr = I think that’s hot.

I’m not sure if I should be flattered or chagrined that I have so many of the characteristics mentioned in this thread (petite, small-breasted, big nose, overbite). :confused:

Slightly wide hips for her frame. A few grey hairs and laughlines are ok, too. (Hey, I’m 44.)

I find women smoking incredibly hot.

Geez, I think there are some guys here who might find parts of me sexy.

I have rarely gone for the stereotypical “handsome” man. Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt? Never. I don’t get the attraction. I want something to be not perfect. I think Lyle Lovitt is quite attractive despite, or possibly because of, how he emphasizes his homliness.

Bits that attract my attention: intelligent eyes, especially brown ones. Short men with really broad shoulders such as acrobats (unfortunately, they hate it that I am taller). Lips, full without being ‘shaky’ - I don’t know how else to describe it - but the smile has to be ready to show. Your hair or lack of it simply doesn’t matter to me but how you wear the hair you have does. No combovers, but unkempt doesn’t bother me.

I list all these things but in reality, I have been attracted to men who don’t display this stuff. It’s the internal bit or chemistry that really attracts me.

I vote yes to glasses. Girls always look better with glasses. Also collared shirts, but maybe that’s not so unusual. But I mean, big baggy ones. Also sleepiness. Is that weird?

Women’s feet.

GET OUT OF MY HEAD!

Er, I mean… no, that’s not weird at all.

I find it’s sometimes hard to talk about this kind of thing without coming off sounding like you’re fetishizing these things. When I read these other posts that’s not what I think, but I can’t help feeling like my own comments would make it seem like I am.

Unsexy? The entire women’s shoe industry might disagree.

I’ll second the vote for some grey, and not just a few grey hairs, either. Of course, I’m 57 and my beard’s mostly gone to grey.

And yeah, gimme some cushion on those hips. (And boobs, too, but that’s outside the scope of the thread. :))

Bags under the eyes. Not the dark circles, but the kind where there is enough skin to form a mild crease.

Women with some meat on their bones.

Smart women.

Tomboys and femgeeks.

I’ll also take a brown-eyed brunette over a blue-eyed blonde every day of the week, too.

I’ve always thought the hijab does the exact opposite of what it was meant to do. I tried to explain this to an ex-GF of mine who was Muslim. (She thought I was weired.)

Kind of ironic isn’t it?

That’s not too surprising, actually - it’s been part of our make-up as human beings probably from Day One that a mystery is always more interesting.

That’s odd, VunderBob, I’ve noticed this one, too. Check out some pics of model Shalom Harlow on Google image search. Something about that feature hints of wisdom, or at least maturity, right? That can be very appealing.

You (and she) nails it in 1.

Ayelet Zurer Does it very well, too.

At the risk of grossing everybody right the hell out, let me just state that there is a category of porn that is, for me, a comlete turn-on. For the rest of the world, it’s the exact opposite.

Now porn, like anything, can be taken to the extreme, and in this category of porn there are, of course, millions of examples of it being taken too far. But when it’s done with subtlety and “taste” (as much as one can have “taste” in porn), it’s HAWT.

Also nerdy chicks. :o