Anybody know what kind of gift I should give a little girl for her Quinceanera? Just show you know, the girls families and our family are friends, we became close when they helped us out after the fire we had. Anyway we’ve never been to one, and don’t know what to bring, all the traditional stuff (I looked it up) seems to be stuff the family is susposed to give. Also the invitation doesn’t mention it, but are susposed ot dress up for this occassion?
Thanks for your suggestions.
I’m not much help with the gift, but around here, as far as dress goes, think a wedding. The girls often wear what looks just like a wedding dress.
You could ask the family what to wear and what she might like (not necessarily the young lady herself, as it’s embarrassing to be asked what you want other people to give you). If this is the first time you’ve been to this kind of an event, you can say that as your reason for asking what’s appropriate, which is a perfectly respectable reason.
there are traditonal gifts?
Huh.
Well. I’ve never attended one as an adult, but yeah, think wedding attire.
As for gifts, I gave my cousin for her bat mitzvah a memory box with matching photo album, pen, journal, and instamatic camera.
So on a less expensive scale (we spent $100 or so bucks) I’d say maybe an inexpensive camera and a photoalbum/scrapbook kind of thing?
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Because they have Mass involved and tend to have a (somewhat) religious conotation, my usual gift is a cross necklace.
This can be as fancy (or not) as you want to spend. If you son’t have a lot of money but would like something that looks really nice, I think James Avery sells some nice (albiet more modern-ish) styles in the 30 dollar range.
What’s a Quinceanera?
I wouldn’t know. I supposed he was talking about a quinceañera. 
Literally it means 15 year-girl. It’s the Hispanic version of sweet sixteen. When girls turn 15 the familly usually throws a lavish party to celebrate it. It’s the second most important date in a Hispanic girl’s life (or so it seems).
Attire? What you would wear for a wedding.
Gifts? Whatever you would give to a 15 year old, preferably one that will last her a lifetime.
Rick: I never heard of any religious connotations to it. That sounds pretty weird to me (maybe other Latin American countries?)
:smack:
Thanks!
Thanks for all the suggestions folks.
WTF? I did not use the word religious in my post. Perhaps you have me mixed up with Bad News Baboon?
But since you bring it up, you might want to read this
True. My apologies.
As I said, it can be a Mexican thing. No connection to religion around here. And besides, the OP doesn’t say if the *quinceañera * is Mexican.
You have Mexicans in Stepford? Who knew? 
Me I live in the barrio. Lots of quinceañeras around here since my neighborhood is about 75% hispanic (mostly Mexican, but who is counting)
[offended] I am not Mexican! [/o]
Just kidding!
I am the sole Dominican in Stepford…
:d
I’ve never attended one of these shin-digs (when I was 15 my family didn’t live in an area with a very big Latino population), but a lot of young Latina women I’ve known had jewelry that they’d received as quinceanera gifts. So a reasonably nice necklace, bracelet, ring, or pair of earrings would be a good choice. Barring that, whatever kind of gift you’d give to a young woman at a formal party. Think in those terms, “young woman”, not “little girl”! Fifteen seems like a little girl to me now too, but this is a coming-of-age thing so I’d steer clear of collectible Harry Potter lunchboxes and suchlike unless her family specifically tells you she wants one.
Yes, it was me who said it had a religious connection. I am Mexican-American and all the quinceañeras I have attended are Mexican. They have all had a mass involved (as was posted by Rick).
In fact, some of the more lavish productions seem to be exactly like a wedding. The only thing missing is the vows, it seems.
Seriously.
Lamia is right- jewelry. A shawl is also good.
Let this be a lesson for those who think all Latin Americans are exactly the same 
And thanks, I learnt something new today.
Here it is also a lavish production. It’s been more than 15 years since I was 15 yo. I can’t remember the exact details. The quinceañera will arrive with her ‘corte’ possibly with up to 2 dozens boys and girls in elaborate dresses parading behind her and her chosen companion (a boy of her age). During the party, the father of the quinceañera (who is dressed in an even-more elaborate dress) changes her flat shoes to some ‘adult’ ones. A symbol, I suppose, of becoming ‘a woman’. Then the father and quinceañera dance The Blue Danube and then the party continues with modern music and possibly the quinceañera changing to another, more confortable but equally elaborate dress. There will be food and a cake at some point.
I am so &@(()++!! glad my mother didn’t make me go through all that.
*She * is dressed in a gown. The father wears a tux, although a father in a gown will make for a more lively and memorable party.