Hello, I think I remember reading this somewhere, but I can’t for the life of my find it again. Some people believe there is a phenomenon that at certain times after the hour, a room which could be filled with different conversations (think a party) will suddenly quiet down. I thought that some people said that this had a special “title” and was said to be attributed to some author’s ghost or something, but I could be way off.
Can’t help with anything as exotic as naming an author whose ghost might be abroad, but I think I have heard such a phenomenon (which I have experiecned more than once myself) referred to as “an awkward silence” or “a pregnant pause” (if it all starts right back up again).
That reminds me of a Far Side cartoon - 7 or 8 dogs sitting around a living room in sofas and chairs nodding off, and the caption was: The conversation was flowing until all of a sudden they all just got dog tired. Maybe that’s the term: ‘dog tired’?
Richard Dawkins used an instance of the phenomenon as an example of a positive feedback loop in “The Blind Watchmaker”. It strikes me as a pretty good explanation of why it occurs in most cases, though it doesn’t provide you with a term for it.
Hmm. I remember reading the Snopes article, but I have read about that in precicely one book. It was a sci-fi, cyberpunk type novel… perhaps called “Virtuality”? I think it’s on my shelf at home - I can look for it if it sounds familiar.
Bertrand Russell told this anecdote about Benjamin Disraeli, to illustrate the humor of homonyms.
It seems that Disraeli was sensitive about the appearance of his big hairy hands. Once at a dinner party the conversation in the room suddenly languished. After a moment of general silence one woman said, “Awful pause.”
Disraeli, who had absentmindedly rested his hands on the tabletop, was seen to quietly but quickly withdraw them and hide them.
Maybe as a non-native speaker I don’t have the necessary linguistic instinct, I don’t get this. What’s the homonym to “awful pause” that’s supposed to be humorous here?
I remember reading the Snopes article already linked to years ago, and then I simply thought this was one of Snopes’s rare hoaxes. Interesting to hear that there are really superstitions told on this phenomenon which all of us know, and even more interesting to hear that those legends include Abraham Lincoln, as Snopes implies. I’ll get the Lincoln biography Snopes is citing via interlibrary lending to see what it has to say.
In college, at the house I lived in we called this the “18 minute gap” (from Watergate fame) since it always seemed to happen about 20 minutes into dinner. We’d all look at each other, omeone would say “18 minute gap”, and conversation would resume.