37 year old female. Purchasing for a large winery in the Bay Area/wine country, California. I’m also a part-time student at our local JC working towards earning an AS in Enology & Viticulture (and possibly a BS after that.) Mom of two, a 17 year old HS student and a 21 year old also working towards obtaining his AS (computer/software related, I think) at the local JC. Happily married, and for the most part our finances are completely separate, which works very well for us. So all of this refers to me personally, my income and expenses only. I can’t really speak for my husband, but he does earn a fair bit more than I do.
My income hovers right around $50,000/year. Usually just under that, but can pop just over it with bonuses. I also have a 401K matching program at work and the last time I checked my balance was just under $30,000. It is currently the only savings I personally have. (My husband has his own savings/retirement savings.) Hopefully I can earn a little more and start saving a bit more aggressively once my kids and I finish school.
I have a very good medical/dental/vision plan through work as well as life insurance and disability, but it seems to cost more and more each year. I am currently paying about $450 per month for all benefits for my entire family. Just a few years ago it was half that or less.
My husband and I own our condo, and as I said, we keep our finances separate. We’ve split household expenses, so there are some that I do not have, such as our homeowners and car insurance, property taxes, cable internet, HOA fees, and a couple of other things that I am sure I am forgetting because I never have to think about them.
My personal household expenses are -
Mortgage (3BR/ 2.5 bath townhouse not far from downtown Santa Rosa) - We split it down the middle. My payment is $700/month. A portion of my paycheck is directly deposited into my husband’s checking account since he is the one that actually makes that payment.
Electric/Gas - It varies but averages around $120/month
Garbage - About $20/month
Water/Sewer - $75/month or so
I pay about $80/month for cell phone service for 2 lines. The second line is for my 21 year old son.
Gas is currently costing me close to $200/month. I drive a 2002 Ford Escape that I paid off a few years ago.
I started orthodontic treatment a few months ago and those payments are $160/month for the next 2 years.
I have no credit card debt, no student loans, etc.
I am paying my son’s JC tuition as well as my own, but the fees are ridiculously cheap. Costs have been between $400 - $1000 per semester including unit fees, class fees, books, etc. for both of us.