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This would be all the explanation I would need if I could recall (in the books) Hermione laughing even once at something Ron said, while looking longingly at him.
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I am assuming from this that you are male. Females tend to NOT look at males they are interested in such a way. Ever. Only teeny-boppers do so to their crushes–be they rock or movie stars and such(Hermione does this with Gilderoy Lockheart). To do so is obvious and yes-dare I say it, common(in the vulgar sense). Hermione is neither.
IMO, Hermione likes Ron because he not only sees her intelligence, but he challenges her, too. He can act as a check on her more formidable personality traits (she tends to go whole hog and is so, so sure she is right–SPEW, for just one example). Ron treats her as an equal, not as a fluffy headed bit of fun. I’ve (mercifully) forgotten the girl he snogs with continually, but if anything, SHE was one of those giggling, simpering wastes of space. Ron admires Hermione’s abilities, but has also seen her vulnerable, and has not rejected her. For a super achiever, this is a huge thing. His regard is unconditional, and that is also huge.
Hermione most likely intimidates most of her classmates, as well as the older kids. Now that they ARE the older kids, who is she to turn to? The faculty? Ron has shared good and bad with her. Despite their acrimony, she and Ron share many of the same values, as mentioned above. She (at least in the movies) set her eye on Ron from the word go (trust me, girls don’t mention spots on noses unless they have an interest in the guy).
I don’t think that having the two of them bicker etc detracts from the realness of it at all–I enjoy it. It’s something I think Rowling does well. It is sublimated passion, IMO, and hopefully, Rowling will not let us down in the last book.
I also really like Rowling’s description of Harry’s jealousy and the smells that evoke something at the Burrow-that something being Ginny, of course. Rowling has teenage emotions taped.
Is the series Great Literature? No, but so what? Why is that a criteria? Neither were Frances Hodgson Burnett’s books, but they are now classics. In children’s books, I look for genuiness of character, interesting plot lines, believable worlds and competent writing. So much of “great literature” is just so much intellectual snob-ism, anyway. HP has all of these characteristics, even if I become aware of the Plot creaking away sometimes.
One last note: I wish that Rowling would give Ron something to do–he was integral in the first book, with the teaching Harry chess etc. Now he is a comic foil and he deserves more. I also want more Neville.
Rupert Grint is cute, in an odd sort of way. And he has great hair.