Type in any old school name: David, James, Fred, Richard. They all go extinct or into severe decline in the latter 20th century. Then type in X, Y and Z, and you see all of the Xaviers and Yusefs, as well as Kylie and Serenity. Old school family names all dropped off, and ‘different’ names took over.
No offense intended to any of the Pauls here, but the connotation I get associated with the name is someone who is slow, a bit clumsy, & socially awkward. I don’t know why I would get that kind of “vibe” from the name, but there it is.
Paul is credited with writing large chunks of the New Testament and with doing more to spread Christianity among the gentiles than any other first-century figure. He is also the biblical author most cited in support of the subjugation and exclusion of women and condemnation of homosexuality.
For much of the history of Western civilization, this made him a hero and a role model. But it’s no wonder his popularity would drop off in the latter 20th century, as intolerance became less of a virtue.
(Note: This explanation is based on first accepting the premise that “Paul” is unique in the decline of its popularity starting in the 1960s, and then casting about for a reason that intuitively makes sense. It is therefore, probably wrong, or at least not completely correct.)
I knew several Pauls in high school, one of whom I thought was just as cute as a bug’s ear. I didn’t even know he knew I existed until I’d long since overcome my fascination with him. Come to find out, he thought I was pretty swell in return. This also happened to me several years later, in college, with a boy named Richard.
Eh, Paul isn’t cool anymore. Parents now want a name that is either a) gender neutral, b) from the other gender, or c) a random combination of the syllables “kay, kait, bray, shay, gray” (or anything that ends in a long a) and “lin, lee, or lah”
Paul isn’t it. I really don’t like the totally unoriginal, bizarre names most kids are getting these days.
I swear there must be Baby Naming dice and one has the prefixes and the other has suffixes… give 'em a shake and have a “new” name… although it sound like everyone else’s name!
Neither my name, Boy from Mars or Baby from Mars’s names have ever been in the top 1000. I’ll give him a bye on that as he’s from Italy - but seems Lady G and I are going to be uncommon. I’ve liked it - while it’s true no-one can ever spell it correctly, it’s been good being able to go by a single name - kind of like Madonna.
So I know this teenage kid named T’Quan. By the by, I met his same-age cousin. Who tells me that his name is Paul.
I was like “Wha?”
He said “Paul”
I said “I’m sorry, but I didn’t hear you.”
“Paul.”
“I’m still not getting it.”
He sighed good-naturedly and said “Paul. P-A-U-L. Paul”
I was really rather embarrassed, but he seemed used to it.
But really, what were his parents thinking? Giving him a weird name like Paul. They should have thought about the fact that he was going to have to go around spelling it to everyone he meets for the rest of his life.
No offense to the OP, but I’ve me enough guys named Paul who were just horrible people, that I’m wary of anyone with that name. Seems like there’s a 75% chance they’ll be a total asshole.
That said, it’s Oni no Husband’s middle name. And he hates it just as much as I do, for similar reasons (that he came to independently before we met).
Be glad you have a name that everyone else doesn’t. That means you’re not common.
One thing I noticed in the top 200 boys’ names is that very few of them are single syllables. Maybe one out of 10 or less. That trend alone might be a large part of why the use of the name has declined.