What does supernatural mean? Something outside nature? No, I’ve discarded that way of thinking. I find religious experience in the natural world (which includes my own nervous system).
Not sure if I understand the question. All I know is, human experience generally includes a sense of relating to the sacred, like Martin Buber said, “I-Thou.” It just looks to me like human nervous systems are made in such a way that they consistently produce this experience.
I say yes to both, I don’t know why they would have to be mutually exclusive. What I’m describing is my own attempt to make coherent my understanding of my spiritual states in a completely non-dogmatic way.
The last question you asked has often been discussed by Pagans and Witches who use rituals to invoke deities. Is there really a being who exists apart from us, who we communicate with in this way? Or is it a way to access potential that is entirely contained within us humans? In my opinion–and this is a generally shared view in Pagan circles–it doesn’t matter either way. What matters is that we are pleased with the results when we do the rituals. I think most of the Pagans I know tend toward the latter view, but don’t see any importance in the distinction.
When I pray, I feel like there’s two-way communication going on, that I’m in contact with a benevolent intelligence. This comforts me and helps me feel my existence is supported. It helps me a lot to get through my life. As for thanking, yes-- most of my prayer consists of simply expressing gratitude.
What about the “human trait” you asked about? If this is inherent within the human being (I think it is), then is it possible to develop it without deities? Yes. There is a way to produce experiences of the sacred within oneself without necessarily postulating a deity–the techniques of tantric yoga. In Tantra, shakti means power inherent within the human being, but the word shakti is also used as a Goddess name. Some tantric yoga is practiced with deities and some without. Does it matter which?
Anyway, my response to the OP was not about rituals, just the sense of the sacred encountered in worldly life. The times I feel the presence of the sacred most strongly is in acts of human compassion and kindness. I’m not calling this feeling “God.” You seem to have misunderstood this. The gist of my argument was here, but it was overlooked because of quibbling over my use of the word “infinite” in a non-mathematical sense. Well, the word does have a non-mathematical meaning, look in the dictionary. The example I saw there was “infinite patience.” It just means ‘endless’ in Latin is all. Everybody knows you can’t quantify or measure units of patience.
I think it’s worthwhile to work toward a non-dogmatic, non-authoritarian understanding of the sacred. I also think it’s possible to speak of “God” (not my choice of words, but let’s go with it) in a nondogmatic way that doesn’t do violence to traditional concepts of a supreme being.
Like in my example, feeling the presence of the sacred more strongly when there are acts of compassion. Perceiving light or sound more strongly means you’re closer to the source, maybe perception of the sacred gets stronger closer to the source too. When this perception gets so strong as to be completely overwhelming, it seems as though the source of it is able to keep giving more and more, and never be exhausted. (This is where I used the word “infinite” in an ordinary non-technical sense.)
It isn’t the feeling itself that I would deify, but the strengthening of the feeling points to an awareness that it can keep getting stronger and stronger without limit. So the perception is that there exists an ultimate source of goodness, of love or compassion. “God” or whatever you call deity has always been used to name this source of the sacred, however sacredness is defined. The “most sacred.”
This doesn’t necessarily postulate a “supreme being” who exists independently of creation. I don’t think it’s such a good idea to believe in a sovereign being separate from us and holding authority over us. I also don’t think that particular formulation is necessary to a universal definition of “God,” it’s specifically a Christian dogma. I suggest “most sacred” or “source of sacredness” as a universal definition of God, because all cultures have some sense of the sacred, however differently they define it.
This brings me back to fessie’s OP where I started. I agree with her because I think she’s describing a sense of the sacred that can be encountered in everyday human experience, and it’s such a beautiful way to look at it.