One of the most pathetic things about Christianity is that Christians miss their own point: you can’t comprehend Jesus of Nazareth, or our relationship with God, without beginning with the assumption that Jesus of Nazareth was one of us.
It was the author of one of the gospels who wrote “only begotten son”. Jesus himself, when accused of blasphemy for claiming to be the Son of God, explained himself by referring to a verse in Psalms which states that we are ALL children of the Most High. He also (as you will recall) led us to pray (the “Lord’s Prayer”) using the kick-off phrase “OUR Father, who art in Heaven”. I am the son of God. Charles Darwin was the son of God. Janet Reno is the daughter of God. Madalyn Murray O’Hair was the daughter of God. Jesus was the son of God.
Jesus of Nazareth was the SPECIFIC son of God who bore a message for us, a message that someone else could have borne had that someone else prayed to God to know what needed to be told to the people, and, indeed, no doubt would have been borne by someone else had Jesus of Nazareth died young after being kicked in the head by a passing camel in his 3rd year of life. And, as people familiar with other religions point out, his message HAS in large part been borne by other messengers of God at various times. No surprise there.
I would say that God is a sense of identity which you and I have, in a valid sense, but not as individuals; individually, I am not God any more than I am “the Straight Dope Message Board Community”. God is an all-encompassing sense of identity, the ultimate All, THAT WHICH IS (“I am that I am”). To believe in God is to believe the universe to be sentient, to exist on purpose, as its own purpose, and to believe that we are part of it all.
Jesus was not “send down” (God, a champion of free well, does not deploy wind-up Messiatons, and Jesus started off down here much as you did), and did not intend to get hisself killed (the purpose was to bear a message; the confrontations that led to his death were designed to challenge the rigid legalistic Pharisaic [sp?] Judaism in which the Mosaic law itself had taken the place of the God that had inspired it. To whatever extent he anticipated arrest, I’m sure he hoped to force people to recognize that literal mindless application of a law that would sentence someone to death for telling people to be kind to one another and share and forgive is WRONG and they would see his point. They didn’t. He was crucified and died painfully, a hideous martyrdom not a triumph of God, who was NOT required [by whom would God be required to do such a thing] to sacrifice his “only begotten son” before he would be allowed to forgive the rest of us for not being perfect.
The messages of Jesus of Nazareth are mainly buried under metaphysical Christian bullshit about human lamb sacrifices, resurrection, Jesus being God + God’s son in ways that the rest of us are neither, and the notion that God for some reason mainly cares only that you believe and state that “Jesus was the son of God and He died for my sins”. I doubt if Jesus of Nazareth would have given a rat’s ass whether you remembered him personally or not: the intention was to pass on a message.
If you wish to understand God as one of us, you can indeed look to Jesus, but first peel the gold plate off his corpse and see Jesus as one of us.
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