Ok, back in 1841 paleontologist Sir Richard Owen, used “Dinosaur” or “Dinosauria” to refer to the “distinct tribe or sub-order of Saurian Reptiles” . He lumped in Theropoda (which include modern birds) and Ornithischia (which oddly means “bird hipped” but are not that closely related to birds). Owen had no idea that Theropoda were related to birds, he was sure they were reptiles. He also didn’t know that Ornithischia were quite separate from Theropoda. Thus, he made a error in lumping the two together, ad thinking they were reptiles.
The Ornithischia are completely extinct.
Not every scientist agrees that Aves should be part of Theropoda, and thus, technically “dinosaurs” It’s a cladistic definition and not all accept it.
However, since many scientist do, you have the awkward term “Non-avian dinosaur” and if you dont include “non-avian” some pedantic smart ass will be sure to correct you. “*No- dinosaurs are not extinct, i saw some in my backyard this morning, and I will have fried dino today for dinner!”.
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While somewhat correct, and sometimes humorous, they can also be called wrong.
Why wrong? Because the non-scientific term “dinosaur” is different than that actually correct term Dinosauria. Yes, I know.
So, yes, *Dinosauria *includes modern birds and does NOT include pterosaurs, mosasaurs, ichthyosaurs, plesiosaurs, and Dimetrodon, etc.
But “Dinosaur” as a layman’s term means “big extinct reptile like creature” and can certainly include pterosaurs, mosasaurs, ichthyosaurs, plesiosaurs, and Dimetrodon, but does *not *include Birds.
Yes, it’s not scientific, but everyone knows what they are talking about.
So, do be kind when correcting usage and make sure that you’re not hijacking or getting off track. If someone posts “Humans never lived along dinosaurs, that movie is wrong” he is obviously using the layman’s term.