All right. Let me try to explain what’s going on here, and I’ll try to clarify the big words so your brain doesn’t asplode.
Pro-choice means just that. Pro-CHOICE. Not “pro-abortion” or “fetuses-aren’t-life” or “let’s-kill-cute-widdle-baby-snookums-for-the-hell-of-it”.
The pro-choice and pro-life lobbies have something in common; they both believe in taking responsibility for your actions when it comes to a pregnancy.
Now, clearly, if you’re a destitute (read: “really really poor”) woman and can’t afford a child, the most responsible thing to do is not have sex. The pro-choice lobby doesn’t dispute that.
For most couples in a committed, loving relationship, total celibacy (celibacy=“not having sex”) isn’t exactly a realistic goal. And the best and most carefully used birth-control methods can fail. (And if you’re in a not-so-loving relationship, having sex may sometimes be unavoidable. I hope I don’t have to spell that one out for you.)
The fact that you are now pregnant does not change the fact that you can’t afford a child.
The choice you now have is to give the child up for adoption, keep it and muddle through as best you can, or get an abortion.
Here is where the two sides diverge. (Excuse me; “split off in different directions.”) The pro-life people would like to help make the choice FOR you, by eliminating (“getting rid of”) option three by making it illegal, because they believe that taking responsibility NEVER means deliberately killing the fetus. The pro-choice people would rather see you make that choice for yourself, even if they don’t necessarily agree with your final decision. They also believe that in certain situations, the most responsible thing to do can be to end the pregnancy.
Now, this is the fun part:
ABSOLUTELY NONE of this contradicts any of the reactions in the other thread; the very reactions you’re pitting here. The woman in the other thread made her CHOICE, and the pro-CHOICE people are respecting her CHOICE. Likely, many of them are silently applauding it right along with the pro-life people. It has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with whether any of the participants in the thread believe abortion is right or wrong. Now that she has made her CHOICE, the consensus (“majority opinion”) is that the young man in question must face his RESPONSIBILITY. Had she decided on an abortion, the pro-CHOICE posters would have been telling him it’s her CHOICE, so he should face the consequences of that decision, whatever they would be.
If you wanted to start yet another pro-life vs. pro-choice discussion (lord knows there haven’t been enough of THOSE), you should have gone ahead and done that. The truth is, there IS no hypocrisy in that thread. You’re trying to prove it by listing posts where people say they’re pro-choice, but in this situation aren’t telling the guy to get his girlfriend to have an abortion. That’s not hypocrisy, that’s EXACTLY in line with the pro-choice mentality. It’s the woman’s decision, not anybody else’s.
Your “evidence” is a load of equine manure (“horse crap”). Either you are so obtuse (“thick-headed”) you can’t see that, you are being deliberately obtuse because you don’t WANT to see that, or you just saw a handy excuse to start up another episode of endless debate. It’s clear this thread has now degraded into a “when is a baby a baby?” argument complete with swearing and insults, so I guess you got what you REALLY wanted. Congratulations, you gluteal chapeau.