I searched to see if this has been covered here, and I didn’t see anything similar.
I have done some medical surveys at my gp’s office and some just what the heck surveys on line that ask: have you felt joy? I honestly don’t think I have since the briths of my kids. When they put that new baby on your chest, after 9 months slogging, and the work of getting their little butts born, yeah that’s joy. I mean that little skinny, squalling, baby, is a little human who was riding around inside. Other than that though? Nope I don’t think I’ve experienced “joy”?
I wonder is it the normal human condition to experience joy? Am I over thinking it? Is joy not as incandescent as I think it is? I mean I’ve experienced a sort of mild happiness, and contentment. My life doesn’t lend itself to a lot of happiness, but I get some happy jolts from time to time. However, I don’t think I ever experience joy since the above mentioned child birth.
So I’m asking for other opinions here: What is joy? Do you experience joy? Do you think that joy is/should be the default for humans? If you’ve had joy would you share if you comfortable sharing?
I seriously don’t know what constitutes joy for me or other people, so I hope to see if my experience is in the normal range. Well, I guess I mean the normal range within this small self selected subset of people.