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Obviously it’s not impossible for someone like me to be wealthy - I really think we’re going to get there because I at least have the sense to pay my investments first. But I have a serious handicap. It’s a constant effort. Whereas a lot of this stuff might be obvious or second nature, it’s not to me.
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Just wanted to add to this - it’s probably a matter of priorities. I’ve always been one of those people who just doesn’t put that much value on money. I recognize now that I probably don’t value it enough, but it’s hard, when you value so many other things above money, to be a wealthy person.
I don’t mean that in a sanctimonious way, because if there is anything I’ve learned over the last year, it’s that money can give you the power to serve your values. I acknowledge there’s something problematic about thinking that money doesn’t matter that much. But that’s really how I’ve thought all of my life, and it explains why I have a tendency to spend it so readily.
My Mom keeps teasing me that she’s going to make me read her favorite book, ‘‘Money is My Friend.’’ I think I’m going to have to tape that to my mirror or something and repeat it as an affirmation.
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I think there’s a LOT of leeway there. The $24k in student debt I accrued getting my degree was the best $24k I’ve ever spent because it opened so possibilities that wouldn’t be available otherwise
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$24k sounds like a perfectly reasonable and manageable about of student debt.
How about $100k? Because that’s how much my Master’s degree costs. I was very fortunate to only owe $10k for my undergrad education due to scholarships. My husband owes $47k for his Ph.D. So that’s $160k of student loan debt for our household.
My FIL is a financial adviser and he is unconcerned about our debt. ‘‘Only pay the minimum,’’ he says, ‘‘And invest the rest.’’ My husband, who is a super savvy organized disciplined frugal person, says you have to think of it in terms of net worth, and we have so much toward retirement already, and there is so much we can do to continue growing wealth. It doesn’t really make me feel better. I hate debt. I worked very hard to get out of credit card debt, and now I have a bunch of student loans.
Yeah, I went to the most expensive, most prestigious schools I could. I value education for education’s sake. I mean I really do. I wanted the best possible education I could get and the privilege of a first-rate education is worth any amount of money to me. Because I paid more for the better education, I will be worth more in the field. And I’m certainly going to have more career opportunities than I would with my B.A.
I don’t regret my choice, but it does scare me a little. And it will mean major sacrifices in the next three years. The sad thing is, I realized tonight it didn’t have to be that way. I could have done it for cheaper–even at the same school. I just accepted the loans I was offered and took that as my budget rather than seeing if I could cut back on expenses and take out fewer loans.
I wish to god I could have a do-over on last year. But since you can’t go back in time, you can only go forward, that’s what I’m going to do, starting today. I’m going to get by this year on as little as humanly possible and then when those payments kick in the real challenge starts.
Good thing I don’t value money that much. Not gonna have any for a while. 