Not really a fetish, but handcuffs are fun.
That’s all I’m prepared to say on a public message board. 
I love feet, too! Especially the soles. Nothing I like more than seeing the soles of some guy’s feet. It’s warm here in So. Calif. and lots of guys are running around in flip-flops showing off their soles
Beards! I love a good, full beard. Tho not the ZZ Top style, I prefer something more closely trimmed. Goatees are good, even moustaches can be fun. A guy without facial hair simply looks too young.
Long hair, too! I think long hair is especially sexy, especially if it’s worn loose.
Glasses can be great, they make a man look intellectual.
There’s a bit more, but you’ll have to email me to find out 
-having my feet worshipped - my friends and I have been debating whether or not I actually have a foot fetish if I only like to be on the receiving end. Consensus is that I do.
-that triangular body shape that some guys have, where they’re broad at the shoulders and then kind of taper down to a muscular stomach/waist, and a nice butt to complete the ensemble. When I get it on with a guy of that build, I can’t keep my hands to myself.
-dressing up. The earlier post about the platonic dress-up and clean thing is something that would definitely get me all hot and bothered. Especially if it is “fetishy” like vinyl or leather or …well you get the idea. Not required of the other person. In fact, other person not required. 
-crinkles at the eyes when you smile. For whatever reason this really really TURNS ME ON.
If a fetish means “a sine non qua for sexual gratification”, then mine are more like strong turn-ons:
– atrractive female feet. My definition of “attractive” involves medium to long toes, well-pedicured nails, somewhat prominent toe knuckles, visible bone structure of the instep (when foot is pointed), prominent tendons, and as many veins as possible on the instep and ankle areas. I’ve heard women with boney, veiny feet complain that their feet were ugly … but from where I’m sitting, they’ve got perfect bare feet. There’s no such thing as too many veins on the feet.
– I like veins anywhere on a woman’s body, actually. Clarification – that’s raised veins, not the broken blood vessels visible on some women’s legs (aka varicose veins). Vascular necks, hands, forearms, breasts and genitals are huge turn-ons for me. Again, I’ve heard women complain that the veins on their arms or neck are “gross” and unappealing. Little do they know.
While being into veins and feet would seem to suggest strictly women with tight, lean bodies, let me add that there are many cases where zaftig women fit the bill. I’ve lusted over (and dated) plus-sized women with gorgeous veiny hands and feet. One girl I was with for a time was about 5’3" and probably wore size 24 or 26 clothes. One of my friends even tactlessly called her a “butterball” (not ot her face). But my friend did not know that this girl had some nice veins on the inside of her labia, and that if her breasts were gently squeezed just so, you could see veins popping out of her full breasts. Sometimes the small details make a big difference.
I guess my fetish/fantasy is dirty, hairy, rough men. I like the Brad Pitt character in Kalifornia, the Dylan McDermott character in Wonderland. Give me tattoos, wild hair, torn up jeans, etc. They look like they just might smell bad, but they’d be awesome in bed. Just the other night I had a dream about Tommy Lee. Mmmm.
However, my SO is pretty much opposite of that. He’s got facial hair and a few tats, but that’s it.
Things I find attractive in women:
-Intelligence
-Glasses (because it implies the previous)
-Competitiveness
-Argumentativeness
-Long straight dark hair
-Shortness
-Sports (participating, not watching)
-Sharing interests with me
Short, dark hair.
Beat-up polo shirts and holey khakis.
Loafers without socks.
(Dull, you say? Not to me, brother!)
Tiny, high arched, well taken care off female feet are always a turn on! Also curves… everywhere, curves are good.
Any of you noticed, on some women, that bit of (what I beleive is) the Pectoral Muscle that stretches between the upper breast and the upper-front of the shoulder?
Yeah, that. I like that.
I just hope I’m not going to hell for it.
Oh, my…what an embarrassing way to kill a thread. :smack:
*short women
*women with glasses
*professional looking women (not hookers)
*the click clack of a woman in heels
*pigtails
*latin women
*other women
*shapely women (not fat but not skinny or atheletic)
*except for the head, hairless women
*last but not least a womans rear end
Why would I tell you? I don’t tell anyone else!
::crawls back under his own personal rocks::
Okay, I probably wouldn’t have admitted to this one, but as I’m leaving when the membership runs out…
Blood. Like Tim Roth in Reservoir Dogs kind of thing.
Disclaimer 1. This one’s a fantasy. In reality I’d probably pass out on the spot if confronted by a scene like that.
Disclaimer 2. It’s not that the fantasy part would even involve smooching or anything more. I just like looking at it. Strange…
One the more conventional side of things:
-freckles
-musical talents
-the kissing of fingers and having same done to me.
For me, it’s just the opposite - I once asked my friend if she would like me to dress up, too. The answer (after some hemming and hawing) was essentially “no”; and to be honest, I didn’t really want to - I just asked because I thought she would like it, be more comfortable, etc. if I did the same.
I’m a watcher, she’s the dresser.
She likes to combine fetish type wear with '50s style outfits - last friday, I bought her a pair of super-high heels, black leather, with feathers. Goes well with a gingham dress and apron.
I just melt at the sight of a woman in a corset. There’s just something about the curves that a corset accentuates on a woman that litterally captures me… The curve of the torsoe, the flair of the hips, the accentuation of the breasts.
bed-head
neckties
men’s broad shoulders
any skin color darker than beige
brown eyes
confidence
Since this is a fetish thread, I’m not going to describe all the physical and personality traits that turn me on in a woman. But I am a fool for:
Short bluejean shorts. Not the cutoff kind, but the ones that are finished off like regular jeans.
Actually I wish we guys could get away with wearing those too…it must feel great on a hot summer day. But, that’s a total fashion felony for us, I know.
Nicely fitting, black leather pants (on women) with high heels. When worn with a white blouse or angora sweater my inability to concentrate on anything else increases exponentially.
I have a zillion twisted fantasies, but those are fantasies, not fetishes. :eek: