As the flip side of this thread, what has been the high point of your life?
For me, it’s the night I met my partner. It was definitely “lust” at first sight, late on a Friday, in a place when gay men met for anonymous sex. We wound up back in my apartment, which we didn’t leave all weekend.
Later this year, we’ll celebrate our 27th anniversary.
There have been a number of things that have been really great. But the first thing that really came to mind was the day I made the call to my psychiatrist. That particular time was a huge low but the start of at least the possibility of highs.
Probably the few days of events leading up to sitting in the audience, in a tux, waiting to be called as the winner of an internationally recognized award. The whole moment, culminating in the applause when I was announced as a nominee, was not dulled by having someone else win. (By a microscopic margin, as it later turned out.)
The week of my 30th birthday was amazing and fantastic. Spent time with a bunch of great people, went to a baseball game with my dad (he never goes to baseball games), met the man of my dreams. I still think about it all the time!
Lots of things, but one that comes to mind is getting a couple articles published on a pretty well-regarded food blog. I actually remember talking to Mr. Athena a few months before it happened and saying something like “Well, job success is one thing, but I gotta say, I’d be about a million times more excited if I got an article published on this one food blog…”
2 months later, I had not one, but two articles published.
Unfortunately it didn’t propel me into food-blog stardom; in fact, it did the opposite. I crossed it off the bucket list and have had no great desire to submit more articles.
This past August I was in field in a tiny town in northern Iceland rolling around and making out in the flowers with a girl that other Icelanders kept mistaking for this womanwhile the sun slowly rose over the mountains that lined the harbor. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. It was surreal.
Possibly the first solo show I played. It was at Art of Everything in Cottage Grove. Every single thing worked out perfectly. I was nearly incapacitated with pleasure after the show, and was high for several days after.