George Bernard Shaw (if you don’t know him, shame on you) said:
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“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” *
Some automatic translation engines out there in cyberspace have remade this into a sentiment that I find equally true:
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about forcing yourself.”
Or as I put it in this pithy little couplet:
Want to live fully?
Be your own bully.