:: Sua comtemplates the question. He frowns, licks his eyebrows ::
I really have no idea.
Sua
Why are so many women not clued in on this? All men adore long hair. Don’t cut it. Ever.
I know: It’s hard to take care of. And the hair gets into everything. And it gets in your face. And wind is not your friend. I know it all - I have long hair too. (Which, btw, is what makes me sexy. And why it’s worth all of the trouble.)
Whatcha talking about, Willis? On some women, long hair looks fantastic. On some women, short hair rules. And, in my personal experience, women I’ve dated for a while who either cut their long hair, or grew their hair out, looked sexy either way, just in different ways.
In any event, running my hand across the lay of a gf’s short hair and watching her shiver is a fantastic turn-on.
Sua
What, you mean you can’t tell just by looking at me? I’m hurt.
In all honesty, I can’t answer this for myself. I really don’t think of myself as being that way. When I’ve been told I was sexy, I knew it was because of how I was treating her, no matter who her was. As far as I know, that’s all I’ve got going for me, knowing how to treat a woman special.
My playfulness, I think. I’m just a really fun person.
If you serious, what you said was one of the nicest things anybody has said to me on this board. Thanks.
This is going to sound bad, but I really do think I can be quite sexy. I’ve got good curves in the right places, I’m funny (apparently) and I’m intelligent. That, and I’m filthy in bed 
Fran
It’s obviously my wit, intelligence, humor – and distance. ‘Cuz in person I put out a anti-sexiness pheromone so strong that a research team Columbia Presbyterian are the only people who want my body.
I think I’m gonna hit some golf balls now so I feel better – wait, I suck at that, too.
Anyone need a junk bond analyzed?
It’s your brain and your way with words, silly.
For me, I think it’s the attitude and the big brown eyes. My rack gets a lot of attention, but if I could I’d donate it to charity.
I would say, being myself.
Not trying to be someone else.
Apparently, my chest. Other than that, not a clue.
Tangibles: a rather large set of bosoms, longish hair (used to be longer), nice lips.
Intangibles: enthusiasm, intelligence, relaxed attitude, seasonal nymphomania . . . :o
I don’t believe you. I demand proof.
In person
In the interest of science, of course.
I agree that there are women that look sexy in short hair. But short hair does not flatter most women as much as long hair does. And every woman is more attractive with very long hair.
Oh, I’m with ya there, Sua, but the short hair I’m thinking about ain’t* on my girlfriend’s head.
Hmmm… time to hurry home, I think.
I couldn’t think of anything, so I asked racinchikki:
Copied and pasted directly from AIM. Only the names have been changed.
*Gunslinger: Well, what makes me sexy?
racinchikki: What doesn’t?
*Gunslinger: Good point. Anything in particular, though?
racinchikki: Well, you’re so modest.
racinchikki: Your accent. Your intelligence. Your dick…
First of all, I have to support Sua on the long versus short hair thing. Many men, like me, even prefer shorter hair. And your loved one can look great in both (mine does).
Back to the quesiton, what makes * me * sexy? Before I met Mrs Phoenix, I had no clue, but she really goes for my blue eyes…
Well, according to many women who have gone on to say “but I really don’t like you like that…”
[ul]
[li] My light blue eyes[/li][li] My spikey hair and sideburns[/li][li] The fact that I love little kids and apparently look really cute playing with a toddler[/li][li] My Canadian accent (“PLEASE say ‘I’m going out of the house’ again!”[/li][/ul]
Now ask me what makes me unattractive.
Nine yards of plaid wool, pleated in the back and held on with a belt.
And my beard. Gotta be the beard.
Lots and lots of skilled photo retouching.
My voice
long curly red hair
deep-blue eyes
nice rack (NOT my words)
my attitude
sense of humour
And that Canadian Accent thing…