Skip to the bottom if you hate stories. I ramble at 3am.
I am aware I am not supposed to open other people’s mail, albeit, it is tempting, just to discover what is important, and what isn’t.
I toss anything addressed to [old tenant] or current occupant. I generally toss things I easily identify as bulk mailing, unless it looks like it’s from a church, or some other organization. I take almost everything else to the leasing office. I know they toss a lot, but I let that be their call.
Anything from the city, county, voter registration, or what looks like a jury summons, I write NO LONGER AT THIS ADDRESS, and drop in back in the mail.
I take packages to the front desk. I used to write NO LONGER AT THIS ADDRESS on them as well for return, but gave up when a couple got redelivered to me.
This is our 4th place in Indy in 13 years (each one a little nicer than the last-- current one is bigger than the house I once owned).
So I’ve dealt with this before.
Our first place was rented under a time crunch, and shoestring budget, due to happening suddenly, and was very cheap, and an internet walk-through.
Due to circumstances of renting, sudden moves, finances, neighborhoods, our first place was embarrassingly cheap, and we got what we paid for. We stayed a year. Not surprisingly, we got about 5 different peoples’ summonses, demands for child support, citations for failure to appear, etc.
Second place not as bad, but had bugs. Stayed a year again, and got the mail of more people that we could keep track of
Last place was nice, and would have stayed forever if our wonderful landlord hadn’t sold to a slimy company during lockdown. Not as many different people’s mail.
Fewer people here, too, but it’s the packages I don’t get-- who orders stuff that close to moving? I don’t want to know.
Basically, how much song and dance do I owe previous tenants whose mail comes to me?