Lemur, in war people die. It is a sad and tragic truth.
As someone who served in the Armed Forces, and spent time in the Middle East, I accepted that. I also accepted being at risk for people like you and your daughter to defend your right to exist, and further my countries political views. So to lecture me on loss or sacrifice is an exercise in futility, as I sacrificed friends and family for other peoples values and beliefs.
As far as your references to the attrocities of the Third Reich and your references to Anti-Zionist sentiment my response is a bit more clouded. Look at no point is any Individual/Group/Country allowed to arbitrarily decide that some one else does not deserve to live simply because of a personal choice or trait. This type of behavior in not tolerable by either side of the issue though.
If I believed that by giving my life I could end terrorism around the world for every race. creed, sex, and religion I would do so without regret. But that is not an option, and quite frankly I have accepted that.
Now if you want to cast stones at the U.S., or any other nation that looks upon this whole situation with frankly nothing short of disgust then feel free. But if you think that the actions being taken now are justified by the activities that took place in the 1930’s and 40’s then this whole then there is only one solution to this whole situation.
So before you cast stones, or vent your personal family tragedies look around and think. I answered and spoke to a simple issue, and as such I have that right. I think that I earned that right by serving my time for god and country, and in truth feel no remorse for having done so. But I do not bemoan the decisions I made or the harm I put my loved ones in by choosing to take them with me in to a hostile place. And if I did make that decision I would never put it out for public consumption. But these are my choices to make and I live with them, and accept the responsibility they represent.
But to lump me and or my comments in with Nazi’s or Terrorists to assuage your guilt is one of the lowest forms of denial I have ever seen. So in closing ther it is, no dancing and no evasion. If the whole region decided to fight till only one person survived to claim the land so be it. Have at it. Just do not waste the lives of my fellow service members for any more of your squabbles.
Trust this addresses your curiosities.
Chris