What song/ band do you associate with your ex?

“She Ain’t Pretty (She Just Looks That Way)” by The Northern Pikes.

For the breakup itself, “Stay” by Lisa Loeb (?) Man, 6 years on, I still get queasy listening to that song.

Sua

It wasn’t “our song”, but it defines the relationship rather well:

I’m So Miserable Without You, It’s Almost Like You’re Here.