Better Off Without a Wife by Tom Waits
Not that I believe that a wife (or girlfriend) is a bad thing, but I do relish the liberties I have in between girlfriends.
Sidenote: Tom Waits was decidedly better off with a wife. Once he met wife-to-be and artistic collaborator Kathleen Brennan, his work entered an adventurous new phase that critics generally praise.
Bread - Everything I own <— I am trying to convince myself not to look at things the way this song does…
Stccrd
From Dave Matthews Band… “Crush”
because I’m still amazed after 8 1/2 years together and 3 years of marriage how much I’m still in love with and adore Mr. Winnie 
It’s crazy I’m thinking
Just as long as you’re around
And here I’ll be dancing on the ground
Am I right side up or upside down
To each other we’ll be facing
By love we’ll beat back the pain we’ve found
You know
I mean to tell you all the things I’ve been thinking deep inside
My friend
With each moment the more I love you
So much you have given love
That I would give you back
Again and again
Meaning I’ll hold you
And please
Let me always
Unfortunately, mine would be “She’s Got a Girlfriend Now” 
Jingle Bells.
lately it’s been I Touch Myself
*Willie and the Hand Jive"
Judy Collins’ recording is better known, but the song was written by Joni Mitchell, who also sings it on her Ladies of the Canyon album.
My song? Hard to pick just one, but let’s go with this one:
Some Kind Of Beautiful (Nikka Costa)
Like the day looks forward to the rising sun
Like the sun that everyday kiss the tide
Like the bridges that leads you to the other side
I’m everyday thankful that you’re the one
If you chased me baby I’d be still as stone
Cause babe you bring my smile on like no other
There ain’t no deeper feeling I get nowhere than
When I’m the skin beneath your hands
You’re some kind of beautiful in my life
Bare Naked Ladies : “Call and Answer”
And if you call, I will answer
And if you fall, I’ll pick you up
And if you court this disaster
I’ll point you home.
I’m afraid that it’s Story of a Lonely Guy by Blink 182.
Probably Sheryl Crow’s “My Favorite Mistake.”
If I could only make up my mind who my favorite mistake was.
I’ll say goodbye to love
No one ever cared
If I should live or die
Time and time again
The chance for love
Has passed me by
And all I know of love
Is how to live without it
I just can’t seem to find it
So I’ve made my mind up
I must live my life alone,
And though it’s not the easy way
I guess I’ve always known
I’d say goodbye to love
Carpenters
Well, with regards to the divorce, it alternates between “Sleep To Dream”, by Fiona Apple (for those bitter moods), and “Torn”, as sung by Natalie Imbruglia (and yes, I know she didn’t do it first), for those melancholy moods. Oh, and “Loneliness Is Worse”, by Veruca Salt, for those near-suicidal moods.
In terms of my romantic situation post-divorce, the best I can come up with is “Only Happy When It Rains”, by Garbage.
Yes, I am pathetic. How did you guess? 
Stccrd-
Perhaps it might help if you know that the leader of Bread wrote “Everything I own” about his (recently deceased) father.
Fifteen Iguana
Love is lightning, love is ice
It only strikes the lucky twice
Once, so you will know the price
And once for crazy faith
You’re not asking if I love this man
I know you don’t, you don’t believe you can
Yet I’ve seen love open like a dancer’s fan
It’s crazy I know,
But my faith says so
[sub]Ehh, I’ve made worse mistakes on this board…[/sub]
Ain’t Talking About Love
Head Over Feet, by Alanis Morrisette
You are the bearer of unconditional things
You held your breath and the door for me
Thanks for your patience
You’re the best listener that I’ve ever met
You’re my best friend
Best friend with benefits
Ben Folds’s “The Luckiest,” particularly the lines:
I love you more than I have ever found a way to say to you.
What can I say, he’s the best.
Bright Eyes, “The Calendar Hung Itself.”
Or maybe Gary Jules’ “Mad World”
“I find it kind of sorry,
I find it kind of sad
That the dreams in which I’m dying
Are the best I’ve ever had”
Power of Two by Indigo Girls. It was our first dance. The wedding was two weeks ago.
Head over Feet. It was our second dance.
(Theme form Buffy the Vampire Slayer was our third dance, thanks for asking)
True Fine love by Steve Miller.
If I had $1,000,000 by BNL.
I like being married.