There is a feral cat who showed up a couple of years ago and is living on our property. We have several outdoor cats* which means that there is cat food outside of which feral cat has been partaking.
Unfortunately, he has resisted all attempts to tame him; he runs away if you get within 10 feet of him. We did trap him and take him to the vet to be neutered (he already was, as it turns out) and vaccinated for rabies and tried to confine him to the screened porch to be tamed, but he escaped almost immediately, and no further attempts have been made.
The real problem is, he is aggressive to the other cats. At first it was only hissing, but today my younger brother caught him fighting with one of our cats, who got bitten. My parents have decided that he must go and I agree that something needs to be done, but I find their solutions unacceptable, so I thought I’d ask you fine people.
My mother wants to cut off the food supply in the hopes that he’ll go away on his own, and there is also talk of taking him to some other neighborhood (far enough away that he can’t find his way back) and just dumping him. (Don’t worry - as far as I’m concerned, this will happen over my dead body. I’d rather see him humanely put down.)
They reject the idea of taking him to a shelter that euthanises animals, since they figure that since he isn’t really adoptable, he’ll just be put down. As for a no-kill shelter, I read (here, actually) that the quality of life of animals in these shelters is very poor.
So, my question is, what should I (we) do? I live in central Maryland. Do you know of any good shelters that accept feral cats in this area? I’ll do some searching myself online, but first-hand experience is invaluable, especially since I physically can’t check out more than maybe a couple of shelters in person (I don’t think my parents would be willing to make an extensive search). And if the kindest thing to be done is to have him put down, I will make sure that that is what happens, though I hope it doesn’t come to that.
Thank you. And since this is my first post (I’m more of a lurker than participant), hi!
*You don’t need to convince me that for their own well-being they should be indoor cats. I agree, but although I am an adult (23 years old), I am chronically ill and am too sick to live on my own, so I live with my parents. Their house, their rules. To be honest, if I really pushed the issue and took charge of the situation - making all the necessary changes to the household - I would probably win, but I don’t have much energy to spare and frankly, aside from this feral cat issue, it doesn’t bother me all that much. We live on 5+ acres, mostly wooded, off of a road that doesn’t have much traffic, and the cats seem content.