So what? You a mind reader? Maybe, for a moment, the guy was just briefly concerned you needed some help.
You turn it into a “mindset” about helping the disabled who don’t need help. Which he didn’t do. He wondered if you did need help, for reasons you can’t know, and freeing asked. You make more than it is.
I was going to bring up this possibility. So Ambivalid, was the guy hot . . . or are you? Exactly how scantily-clad were the two of you? Could he see your dick? If so, was he pointing at it and asking “Do you need any help with that?” I could easily understand him taking the open door as an invitation to enter the sauna and “take care of” your needs. And the poor guy must have felt crushed and humiliated at your negative response.
Well now you say you had no issue and that you just found his question downright hilarious, but earlier in the thread you described his mindset as ‘overwhelming to the point of being irrational’, which certainly sounds like an issue to me.
Again, I genuinely don’t understand why you think this is some kind of crucial difference. I know you think I’m just hassling you for no reason but “do you need me to close that for you?” and “do you need some help?” honestly, sincerely do not seem like substantially different questions to me.