What's the best advice you've gotten from a message board?

Or don’t rely on advice from a message board

I wouldn’t say I “got” a lot of good advice, but I’ve seen it given.

The “nice guy” threads were spot on in telling the nice guys in question to buck up a little and stop being so passive-aggressive. I don’t suffer from Nice Guy Disease anymore, but I could have used these threads about 15 years ago.

In that vein, a lot of threads deal with the end/impending end of the OP’s romantic relationship, and I have seen a lot of caring, poignant, wise advice given in those, up to and including “See a lawyer.”

A lot of my book and movie choices have been based on the recommendations here, and I have yet to be disappointed.

Once again, I could have used this message board about 15 to 20 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache learning lessons the hard way.

It’s not so much “advice” as the epiphany that I am not nearly as smart as I thought I was. However, when I feel particularly cowed by some of the posters here, I go to the “Yahoo” boards, which usually makes me feel a lot better about myself.

I spend about $25 to fill up my tank–an event which happens, on average, once every two weeks.

vibrotronica: From this day forward shall be defined as: ‘A homeowner with a very small lawn

Send the bunny around the tree TWICE when tying shoes. Unties easier than a double knot, and holds nearly as strong. My shoes used to untie all of the time. Now they never do, and my 5-year-old’s as well.

I got some great advice on how to hook up a router at home right here on the SDMB. It was great – I read the instructions, bought the stuff, and put it together. Zero problems! I love this place.

The best advice is the one you take to heart the most, and the one I received on this very board was:

“Stop stressing about your mother’s feelings. It’s not your fault.”

You know, I knew that, but for the first time, I realized what a self-demoralizing path i was on in regards to my mother. And it was all because some strangers on the Interner could see more clearly than me.

Hm, directly, I’ve gotten a lot of sympathy when I needed it a few years back.

Indirectly, I’ve gotten great tips on music to listen to and books to read when lurking around in Cafe Society (which is how I spend most of my SDMB time these days). Knowing me, I’ve been helped out on a computer problem or three back in the day as well.

A while back I asked here for advice on whether or not I should go to a BDSM munch. I took the advice and went. Yadda yadda yadda…I spent last year living in the UK. Thanks, everybody :smiley: .

Now that you mention it, my home has no lawn, merely a small garden in the back where my SO grows peppers and veggies.

I tried this today, and I think you have changed my life. Thank you.

This one’s pretty high up on my list, too. Everyone I teach it to is suitably impressed. Thanks, SDMB!

Never debate on matters of life and death with a Cecilian!

I … don’t understand exactly what you’re describing here. Bunny? What?

That loop you make with the left side of the lace is the tree. When you wind the right side around it, that’s the bunny. Then you push that through to make a bow, and that’s the bunny jumping into the hole. :cool:

The best advice I got her at SDMB was the understanding that my living situtation was my choice alone, and that if I wanted to move, I could if I really wanted to.

As a result I am more confident in the choices I make.