During my mom’s final six weeks in hospice with level 10 pain, the following number was a 24/7 earbug that I can’t listen to anymore: Life On Mars (@ 9:42)
Despite it being relatively mainstream, this somehow slipped my radar until mom’s decline - I’m sure if I had heard this way back in the day (along with all his other gazillion records that my sisters were always playing)* it wouldn’t have hit me in the yarbles like it did, being not really on top of my game, at the time.
*pffffft they had every album EXCEPT Hunky Dory
Then again Elton’s Sad Songs - no - not a sad song. Treacly, by-the-numbers, and pedestrian, sure, I’ll go with that, though.
I never expected to find another DA fan on the Dope, although I really haven’t thought about them much since the late '80s/early '90s. I was more an Adam Again or The Choir guy.
Speaking of Adam Again, their songs “River on Fire” and especially “Stone” are also pretty depressing.
I grieve by binge-listening to an artist*, tearing up as I drive to work.
So right now it’s a lot of Bowie and Cohen, specifically Bewley Brothers:
“Leave my shoes, and door unlocked / I might just slip away… just for the day, hey…”
and Famous Blue Raincoat: “Did you ever go clear?”
*(so Daniel Amos’ll be on my playlist as soon as “Uncle Terry” Taylor buys the farm)
Kilkelly Ireland performed here by Robbie O’Connell & Finbar Clancy.
I dare you to be dry-eyed by the end of that song. Song starts at 0:57 on the link if you want to skip the intro. Although the story really sets up the background of the song.
How about Elvis Costello’s ‘This House is Empty Now’…
These rooms play tricks upon you
Remember when they were always filled with laughter
But now they’re quite deserted
They seem to just echo voices raised in anger
Do you recognize the face
Fixed in that fine silver frame
Were you really so unhappy there
You never said
So this house is empty now
There’s nothing I can do to make you want to stay
So tell me how am I supposed to live without you
One year, in my chorus’s Holidays concert, one of the songs was “Christmas Without You” (not the Dolly Parton/Kenny Rogers song or any other one I could find online). Less than a week before the concert, one of the singers suddenly died of meningitis. It hit everyone very hard. But you know, the show must go on. I don’t know how we made it through that song with tears running down our cheeks. And the audience too, including the guy’s family. I still think of him when I hear that song.