Looking for frank views and maybe to have my own views deconstructed, challenged and adjusted. I know I’ve been a bonehead on topics like this before…
Short version: What do we do when accommodations to make something accessible (to people who need additional accessibility features) significantly diminishes the thing being accessed, for everyone else?
Real world example: I published an April Fools video - basically a parody of some of my own quirks and mannerisms. It’s a deadpan presentation of a topic that I have covered in complete earnest in the past, but it gradually becomes more and more absurd and disconnected from reality. Most people loved it - that’s nice; a small number of people said it was stupid - they’re not wrong; a smaller number of people said it just wasn’t funny - no problem - de gustibus non est disputandum; a still smaller number of people just chimed in with generic internet hater hate - don’t care - they can go boil their heads.
One or two people wrote to complain about the way the work was presented - to summarise they were not well acquainted with the tradition of April Fools, but furthermore, they wished that I had made it clear in advance that the thing was going to be a joke, and that I had explained what April Fools is about, for people who don’t know it. Variously either explicitly in the complaint, or by reasonable implication, they were asking for accommodation for people on the neurodivergent spectrum. Tone tags or similar.
Except the very nature of this form of humour is that it’s supposed to catch you unawares - a well crafted April Fools joke should (IMO) appear completely mundane and plausible at the outset, and then either suddenly become clearly ridiculous, or maybe never reveal its true nature at all and leave you wondering if it was all real. If you try to present an April Fools joke by prefacing it with “Hey, do you want to hear an April Fools joke?”, you are the April Fool.
In the grand scheme of things, it’s probably just a case that you can’t please everyone. It’s not as though the lack of requested accessibility stopped someone getting CPR or something - the media was a pointless, unnecessary joke. If you don’t get it, for whatever reason, your life is only deprived of the time you wasted watching it.
Except I feel like that is, as a matter of principle, wrong - to say “well, you don’t really need this accessibility” - it doesn’t feel like it should be my decision what someone else doesn’t need.
But at the same time, adding the requested accessibility would ruin the thing for everyone.
So what’s the solution?