All good points here…
Yeah, I should’ve been better about maintaining it, first of all, but nothing ever lit up (in terms of engine lights and such) so I thought it was fine. I actually didn’t know that spark plugs were a consumable… stupid me. That’s on me. If I keep the car, I’ll definitely be better about maintenance from now on.
The fender-bender was the other party’s fault and I actually did get an insurance payout for it, but I kept the money instead of getting the work done. It was just some bumper damage. I didn’t care about cosmetics — I just put some giant band-aid stickers over the holes — and I figured I’d never get back the full retail cost of those repairs anyway even if I sold the car.
Hmm.
I think a slight complication here is that I barely drive this car anymore. I used to take it across the country and back, which is how it racked up the existing miles. But since my partner got her brand-new Solterra, we use that for all the roadtrips and shared outings now. The Crosstrek mostly just sits in the driveway now. On average it’s driven less than 10 mi/week, sometimes much less, and sometimes there are multiple weeks in between it seeing any use at all.
I don’t know if that makes the maintenance situation any better or worse. On one hand, the minimal usage would presumably mean that mileage-based maintenance would be needed much less frequently from now on. On the other hand, there are also age-related things that are slowly giving out — mostly various rubber gaskets/weatherstrips and a few rusty bolts and such, nothing too bad.
But it also means that the Crosstrek is now just an inferior copy of the Solterra
We didn’t intend to end up with two cars this similar — it would’ve been nice to have one tiny EV for in-town trips and a bigger PHEV SUV for longer trips — but alas, it just didn’t play out that way because the fire forced us to shop for a replacement sooner than was ideal. I didn’t expect to have to consider replacing the Crosstrek anytime soon, but the oil change shop let me know that the coolant and transmission fluids were nasty and really needed replacement. That was the trigger for taking it to the mechanic for a detailed inspection. Now I wonder what else I’d been neglecting… we’ll know by next week 
It’s a tricky situation… for a few grand, I could probably keep the Crosstrek going for another few years. But it’s also more car than I really need anymore, and it gets pretty bad mileage by modern standards (20-25 MPG depending on what accessories it has on). Between gas and oil changes and maintenance, I just wonder if it makes sense to keep dumping money into it. It’s not obviously a “yes” or “no” answer at this point, which is what makes the decision more difficult. I could argue myself into taking either approach…
Conversely, for not a whole lot more money, I could swap it for a used FWD EV instead, put some snow tires on that, and use that for the minor in-town trips. We’d still have the Solterra for any outings, but that would mean we’d no longer have a gas car at all. Maybe not a big deal, but would make the occasional longer roadtrip harder — we’d have to rent something, probably, given the lack of charging stations en route to our usual destination. But that’s only once a year.
I briefly considered using this as an excuse to upgrade to a bigger gas or PHEV SUV instead, which would be fantastic for road trips, but one, they’re super expensive, and two, that would put me back into the same situation, of having “too much” car for the rest of the year that just mostly sits in the driveway but still requires expensive maintenance and consumables. It just doesn’t make sense to me to choose a car for the very occasional “extreme” use once a year, rather than the much more mundane day-to-day.
Hell, if they still made the ELF semi-enclosed electric trikes, I’d probably just get one of those:
It would be perfect for my needs, and definitely cheaper than maintenance.
In Europe, Fiat makes the Topolino, which would be perfect:
But alas, it will not be offered in the US (and tops out at about 25 MPH anyway, which is too slow for our roads).
So many variables… sigh. I guess, really, I need to separate the two considerations more clearly… whether to replace the existing car should be independent of which car to replace it with. But it’s hard to, because ultimately it all boils down to “how much utility would I get for how many dollars a year”, considering maintenance, fuel, insurance, car payments, etc. The projected total cost of ownership over the next 5-10 years seems like a complicated calculus problem that I don’t really know how to plot…
I’m kinda half-hoping the mechanic will come back next week and tell me “actually, it needs like $10k of work…”, in which case that repairs would exceed the value of the car itself and make the decision simple. It’s this middle ground that’s hard to reason around 