What they do at the Arizona is respectful and subdued, IMHO, and they should do that for as long as they want.
The bell-ringing and name-reading for 9/11 is bordering on wallowing. I think a nice memorial is at each 9/11 site, and a quiet, reflective ceremony is in order for a few years to remember the fallen. And that should be all.
Eventually they’ll stop doing a simulcast on the news networks of ceremonies at each impact time mark and expecting the President to stop what he’s doing to be in them (*). I’m sure it will continue to involve a solemn, moving memorial act at WTC, Shanksville and the Pentagon lawn, like it continues to be at the USS Arizona. Maybe also at firehouses and other first-responder stations. The reading-of-names, especially at WTC site, and at firehouses and police precincts in NYC that lost members on the day, will likely be done for as long as there is a large number of survivors around who feel like having it.
(*The current CinC isn’t going to be the one that stops that. IIRC he got flak for one year not showing up at Arlington on Memorial Day when most Presidents have done the same once or more in their term with little notice)
You clearly have no knowledge of the War for Texas Independence.
As to the OP, they haven’t even finished the new WTC building - 12 YEARS after the attack. Maybe if mind-numbing bureaucracy and infighting would have been put aside and it was done, say, 5 or 6 years ago (name any other skyscraper that took 12+ years to build - you can’t) then that would help the healing process. Fuck, we’ve barely got a proper memorial center in NYC, and nothing in Pennsylvania yet.
People will stop “wallowing” in it when something bigger comes along, or when most of the people alive on that date are dead/senile. Don’t worry, it will fade with time, but it will never be forgotten. In the meantime, pardon the fucking inconvenience.
In 104 years, you mean. I nitpick, but still…I mean, actually: based on what I remember from my childhood, I would say we could subtract another three decades at least and say that in 75 years at most, when my youngest child is (one hopes) still a spry 76 year old, it will be pretty well faded away for the general non-buff population. I think 50 years from now it will be pretty close to there as well. What I wonder is where things will lie 20 years from now. At that point, no one much under 40 will really remember it firsthand, and that strikes me as when an event can start seeming like just some boring old irrelevant thing that old people natter on about.
Ides of March? Beginning of Syrian civil war? Maine statehood? A visit to the March 15 Wikipedia page provided me those options and several more, but I’m not really sure which one applies.
My guess is that “Yes, they will continue the ceremony.”.
There continues to be a lot of visitors to the USS Arizona/Missouri museums, and I think the tourists may feel that the Park Service aught to be doing something on December 7. The complex is more than just a statue or a plaque covered in bird shit. It’s a fairly busy, active place. (There is also a WW2/submarine museum, the USS Bowfin, as well.)