Has anyone mentioned Pike Dextor (Eric Schweig) from one of my favorite movies, Big Eden?
He was so heart-wrenchingly normal it, well… wrenched my heart.
I love that movie! Such a sweet romantic fable. I should have thought of him as well.
I got all excited about that movie after I saw an ad for it in the Advocate, and I was disappointed, I guess because I was hoping for a comedy, and it was dramaey.
Side note: looks like you and jayjay have yet to pony up some pictures. I also think that it’s kind of funny, the admirers and such that we have running around that are hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. Seems to be a common SDMB problem. 
Remember me? We met at Neverland Ranch and you showed me the secret handshake and the secret washing of hands after the secret handshake.
If I were single, yours would be the only ad that would interest me an iota. I agree that the problem with your ad is location
Regarding the OP and ordinary-looking Gay men in the media…I thought the two Gay guys on Will and Grace, who adopted the child and occasionally show up for a game of charades…they are pretty ordinary-looking, and if I am not mistaken, one or both are openly Gay. Unlike Will who ALWAYS makes a point of mentioning his wife and kid in every interview, lest people (shudder) think he might actually be…one of “them”.
LOL. I know what you mean. Seems like all of the admirers are in a faraway land sometimes. As for the other thing well…pony one (Jayjay) and pony two (me!) . Enjoy!
Both, you’ll note, unconscionably ordinary-looking…
Do you two know each other? I just noticed the locations.
More cushion, for the pushin’ :rolleyes:
We sleep together every night, so yeah. 
Speak for yourself! ;0P
Sampiro, I love your profile. If only I was gay…and male…or you were straight…Are you sure you’re gay? 
Well, that’s one thing, but it’s a pretty far leap from there to normal-looking. Pierce Brosnan does very little for me, but that doesn’t mean I can’t see that he’s pretty far from normal-looking.
:smack:
So all of my hitting on you has been for nothing? I think I’m going to go burn myself at a stake.
You were hitting on me?!
You have GOT to work on your technique!
And no, not a waste of time, in THAT aspect, anyway. We’ve got…arrangements…
Head shot of the young John Goodman.
The media are always going to prefer looks over reality. Desperate housewives don’t look like that, either.
Allow me to check…
Well, in my mind, anyway. So when are you coming down to Arkansas next?
Heh. I identify with that. My best flirting has been done in my own mind.
Arkansas? Ewwww… We’re going to be in New Orleans for Southern Decadence/Convergence, though! 
Why are you ewwwing Arkansas? It is the home of at least one fine man…
You’re just saying that because you want to use me as bait…