Where did I first read this Buddhist parable? or: Where to find enlightenment?

There’s this parable that I’ve been thinking of for awhile, I read it in a book some time ago. I wanna write it down and show it to a friend to illustrate a point, but I can’t quite remember the details.

It’s about these two monks who are crossing a river. The older monk helps a woman cross by carrying her on his back, even though his vows don’t allow contact with women. The younger monk is troubled by this, keeps thinking about it as they walk on and eventually asks the older monk how he could do such a thing. The older monk tells him the problem is with younger monk, because “I put her down miles ago, while you are still carrying her”.

At first, I coulda sworn I read this from a JD Salinger story, but now I’m thinking it could have been any number of authors. I found a few versions of this story on the net, but none of them had quite the eloquence I remembered from the book I read. I’m 90% certain it was from a fictional author, probably in a fictional work, though perhaps from an introduction or forward.

Anyone recognize this from a book they’ve read? It’d help me sleep if I could figure this one out, thanks a lot.

I recognize it as an old Zen parable (one of my favorites), but don’t know it from a fictional book. If you do find out, let me know.

It is indeed from an old Zen parable and is told in many books concerning Zen. I forget the original author but if i remember to look tonight I will post it.

This Zen koan has an author though the name is probably lost in time. These koans are used to illustrate and illuminate the fact that life is simultaneously contradictory and complimentary.

My favorite: Ahh… the barn has burned down, now I can see the moon.

Zen Flesh, Zen Bones is a good Zen-story anthology available at a lot of libraries and probably from used-book services on the net. (I looked though Alan Watts’ The Way of Zen but couldn’t find that story. Games Zen Masters Play, by R.H. Blyth, is a great old anthology I used to have, if you can find it.

Good call alonicist, Zen Flesh, Zen Bones by Paul Repps has this and many other classic koans in it.