Wow. I didn’t realize she was still at it. And she’s close to 50 now. Interesting that she got her start when her husband posted pictures of her to Usenet, and it snowballed from there.
I see ads on craigslist all the time looking for women to appear in adult films. I wonder how many of them end up on ad-supported amateur sites.
Do you remember the going rates? I ask not out of interest at prevailing myself of those services but because I suspect many such postings are veiled prostitution offers.
See, if you post an ad on Craigslist looking for a prostitute, that’s the crime of soliciting in many jurisdictions. If you post an ad for a porn actress, that’s legal (in the US, anyway).
I would expect porn acting offers to have a higher rate than just prostitution.
I think that’s the first time I’ve ever made a comment on the Dope worthy of an ISWYDT, so thanks for that!
Could be. I just looked at a couple, and the ones that post a rate are all over the place – $350, $1400, $4000. Based on the ads on Backpage, the going rate for escorts in my town is more like $100/hr.
Why do people do it in front of a camera? Why not? As long as they are over 18 and are not being coerced, who the hell cares what they do or do not do on camera?
I’ve heard webcast interviews with some of these folks. One, Heather of “ideepthroat” was specifically asked “what if your children see this someday?” Her answer was that “They’ll know how much their mommy and daddy love each other.”
Many, possibly most, of the genuine amateurs work only with their partner. They are letting us into their private lives and exposing more of themselves than their mothers or grandmothers did - they’re just further along a continuum. In their great-grandmother’s time, revealing a bare leg might have been scandalous, but now plenty of girls wear swimwear that is basically two postage stamps and a cork.
And there are plenty of jobs where nobody will care if you like posting footage of yourself having sex. Any number of retired porn pros work in Hollywood. Juliet “Aunt Peg” Anderson operated a bed and breakfast and as a massage therapist, Brandy Alexandre worked as a graphic artist. Unless you’re going into politics or are going to work for giant hypocrites (“Exactly HOW did you find my videos?”) it is not a giant issue.
On the other hand, I can see facial recognition (hur-hur!) being applied to every video on a free porn site and compared to a database of images, like the CostCo membership database.
I think that people are blind to this disclaimer. You can repeat it 100 times on this thread, and there will be too many people who are so committed to lecture you about your narrow mindedness that they can’t let what you say sink in.
Internet Porn is a new frontier, where the consequences are hard to measure. There are some people who have always wanted to do it but didn’t have an in, and now they can do it with ease and from the safety of their own homes. There are a lot of people that applies to.
There are also a lot of people who have very little moral objection to what they do with their bodies, thinking it no more or less an asset than any other talent, be it creative, intellectual, or physical like sports or catwalk modelling.
There are some people who are desperately in need of money and will do things with little forethought, but those are not necessarily the norm, though I’m sure it varies upon the outlet.
We don’t know what the consequences of the Internet Porn development will be yet. The moral objections are rapidly lessening, we all admit to partaking of masturbation (something we’d never have admitted to a couple of decades ago), many of us openly consume porn, even if we do yet sometimes feel a bit guilty about it. The way future generations will look at those who participated, be they friends, relatives, or work colleagues, may be a big unknown, but it seems to be leaning towards the favourable and probably won’t be a big deal for most.
Frankly, I think charlatan nonsense like psychics or homeopathy deserve more scorn and moral objection than participating in something that brings harmless pleasure to so many.
For values I really meant more of an economic weighting of things that aren’t directly monetary as opposed to right/wrong. You seem to place higher valuation on the negative social effects than the people making the decision. That can come from existing in different subcultures that impose different reactions. It can also just be different valuation of the same social affects.
Some people buy more pizza than I do. Some buy less or never buy any. We place different valuation on the benefits of pizza relative to the market costs and buy appropriately. Why would we think people approach posting blowjob videos any differently?
A good friend of mine, post-op, had a sex scene with 5 men which was streamed on video to the internet (she lay on a massage table of sorts, and had a double penetration, one in her mouth, and her hands around two others). I saw it, and it looked very…busy.
Why did she do it? No particular reason. She said “I like having fun, and I don’t care who sees me.” No one was paid, it was entirely just done for the sake of it.
one thing that has always impressed me is the makeup the women wear. There have been several videos of before and after of women getting made up for “reality” shows-from the Kardashians to the porn star, and I would never be able to recognize the women without the makeup. They accentuate certain features such that I don’t remember anything else (not only boobs, ). So these women (even the amateurs who I have always assumed get ready for their parts), look very different outside of the movie shoot.
This is a story about a recent Reddit discussion where the adult children of porn stars discuss their feelings on the subject. Obviously, this isn’t a scientific study or anything, but it may interest the OP to know that the vast majority of the kids were fine and weren’t bothered by it.
This. I’ve seen stills from a movie said to be made by a friend’s sister-in-law. She was wearing a wig as well as copious make up and although I’m pretty certain it was her she would have had plausible deniability. I minded my own business and never told my friend not any one else who knows her.