Can’t think of anyone, truly, but until I finally got hitched, at 44, I am pretty sure nobody who knows me would have been surprised if I’d come out as lesbian. Always supported gay friends and lifestyles, won’t wear heels unless I have to, am not very ‘girly’, and will dance, enthusiastically, with every and anybody on the dance floors…which, when I was in my early 20s, were all at the gay clubs.
But most of my family, and friends, too, aren’t well versed in/exposed to the gay lifestyle, so they don’t have much to compare me to. And while I’ve been hit on by women a few times, it hasn’t happened a LOT, so I think my independance, my insistance on doing my own thing even if it means leaving a relationship, and my obsession with comfy shoes has raised an eyebrow mostly on the inexperienced side of the fence.
With no reason to lie, and LOTS of reasons TO fib :p, I have always been boringly heterosexual.
So I guess my answer is myself! For the surprised part. I wouldn’t be disturbed, though. Life might be a lot easier for me!