When the swiper hits the victim’s corner with his broadside, it’s easy to tell who side-swept who. If both get scratches on their broadsides with reasonably equal scratch lengths:
The swiper usually has a scratch that’s big and messy at the front, diminishing towards the rear.
The victim would have it the other way round. A messy initial impact point, diminishing towards his front.
If the two cars were parallel when they touched, it might not be possible to tell. But in most cases I would expect the swiper to have damage on the corner of his car, while the swipee would have damage in the middle of a panel. The swipee"s damage might look like a ‘scoop’ was taken out of the side caused by the curved path of the swiper.
But doesn’t that also have to do with the different shapes of the surfaces? A car with a somewhat flat shape would sustain a longer swipe, but a car with a protruding surface (like a wheel well) might be damaged mostly on the protrusion . . . regardless of which car did the swiping.