Obviously it’s not ALL women, so don’t hit me with that argument please. But it’s a significant percentage of women, indeed I’d say most women, so there.
Now men are obsessive over other things. Cars, sporting events, etc. These make sense.
Cars have engines, they are sleek, they have power, you can drive them, race them, clean them, modify them, make little models of them, take pictures of them, have sex in them. Endless, really.
Sporting events obviously have huge amounts of things going on, like team standings, player choices, management, winning, losing, strategies, fights, action action action.
So I forgive men their obsessions. I don’t have the same obsessions, but then I’m weird like that.
However women seem obsessed with shoes! But what do they do? They come in many garish colours, uncomfortable designs, and they need to match some kind of accessory. Therefore they buy 80 pairs of them.
That isn’t enough for me to comprehend this strange love for the items.